How do you coax someone into a menage a trois?

This is just a question for the experienced. How did you coax someone to try and have a Menage a Trois? How do you drop simple hints and clues, and back off when they don't bite? My partner is bi-curious, but never did anything in the seriousness as this. Please no comments if we are sick or demented, this is for people who would like to try an alternative lifestyle and its not for everybody.

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  • My wife and I watch porn together occasionally and we have talked about threesomes before. About a month ago she surprised me while her and her best friend and myself all were at our house drinking together. Her best friend stays with us for now because she didn't have a place to live.

    My wife and I go back to our bedroom and she came out of our bathroom in lingere and then as we were making out she said do you want me to ask her to come in? What man wouldn't!!! So we had our fun and there were no hard feelings from any of us that were involved.

    So my advice is watch porn, suggest it to her. And let her do the planning if she wants to don't pressure her or she never will. Good Luck!

  • You might want to rethink this. Some fantasies should stay fantasies. This one can turn very bad. I had one years ago with my ex and a friend. We all were fine before and during but never were quite the same afterwards. It was not pretty.

    Now this for sure wasn't the only reason or even the most important reason but we are ex's now and I am no longer friends with her.

  • my spouse at the time just asked and I gave into what it was that she wanted. me and two other females had a toxic time, when I first was to experience it things did not work out I just ended up watching. Try asking and see what she would think about it I don't think she would mind, especially if she is already bi curious,

  • "Hey Babe, you interested in getting a little freaky sometime and adding someone to our sex life?"

    Hints and Coaxing is BS. Just ask. Remember women like to be with their equal not some weak guy who can't even say what he wants. Worst case she says no. Accept it and move on. Jees

  • Try the watching a bit of porn angle, suggest you'd like it,then

    ask & if the answers still no then respect the decision

  • Hi!

    I have kidded my wife about doing this too, and the reality is that MOST women will not induldge in this! I think its okay for a fantasy, but maybe something you would not want to try in reality!

  • I just finished a Kit Kat bar.........it was pretty good.

    Sorry Peter, just wanted to jump in on your question!!

    : )

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