Friends don't respect my privacy?
My friends at work are always asking me about girls I've been out with and I hate talking about it because I like to keep it private I'm 27 and they think I'm a virgin or gay which I'm not and when I do tell them about my ex girlfriends they think I'm lying they are all either married or in relationships,they keep asking me why I'm single and I just tell them I like being single which is true right now anyway. I am becoming a laughing stock amongst them and it's really depressing me, what should I do?
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AHHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!
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No, I'm not laughing AT you, but these 'smug-marrieds' who are probably bored to tears in reality! You should turn it around on them and ask how how the humdrum feels...point out that at least you have the option of getting something/one 'fresh' to put it crudely. It really bugs me when people either try to convince you that you are not complete if you are not in a relationship or if you are, what you're missing out on, not being single, like either status makes a diff at the end of the day if you're miserable! Besides, it's a workplace and work should be priority.
So there.
It is time that you took charge of your life and let your friend know how you feel and that you, don't want to give them the wrong impression about you private life it is just you are tired of them judgeing you about past relationships and the whether or not you are virgin or you are gay, they don't need to know that aspect of your life anyway. They are the type of guys that will tease about anything and that is probably because they do not have better things to do. You do what you do in your own time, it is not up to them anyway so why do you care what they thing when you are going to get results like those. You might want to find some new friends if they are going to act like that, be your own person not what they want you to be, you will get more out of life that way.
Wow, do you live in Alabama? As an unmarried 30 year old woman I definately dealt with this one. I had so many people ask me why I have never been married. I finally told someone "At least I've never been divorced". Just tell your friends to lay off. And get some friends who are single and understand your situation.
im sure if your that uncomfortable you need to talk to them seriously, i think this is a form of bullying! and if your really upset about it iyou can report it to management, being harrassed and your sexual orientation isbeing discussed more than you would like it to..however this would mean you would loose your friends..but what friends makes you feel THIS bad..
talk to them first and tell them.
then if that fails get a girl and kiss her infront of them..it will shut them up for a short while
stop giving you power away to them...
you know who you are much better than they do
if this is a real issue that is hurting you ... grow some balls ... confront these guys, and tell them to stop it
or
ignore them and dont let anything they say appear to bother you ... eventually they will get bored and go away if they dont get the desired response out of you
I'm not laughing at you when I say I would strongly suggest finding new friends. The ones who are laughing at you sound pitiful.
BLOW UP AT THEM...
all you have to do is "cuss" people out one good time and they'll leave you alone
ex) GOTDAMNIT, I DONT WANNA F*CKIN TALK ABOUT MY PERSONAL LIFE, MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS YADA YADA YADA lol
they may get mad for a little while, but they'll get off your back
I may have gotten a thumbs down, but it works...maybe you can skip the actual curse words, but I'd still yell....mmhmm
wow this sounds like its coming from a 15 year old not a 27 year old. grow up. im 14 and i could careless about what others think of me. you should do the same.
These are people not worth associating with.
Check your way out and dont share everything with them.
I know that can be hard but you have to just ignore them, you know who you are and if they don't want to belive you and act like they're in middle school, let them. Just be tru to yourself, andlet them talk.