Do you think my BF is serious?
My boyfriend and I are reaching the year mark, we just moved in together almost 3 months ago. He tells me he wants to propose to me soon and he told his best friend he wanted to talk to him about wedding stuff and was talking to our neighbor about what he would like at the wedding. Do you think he is serious about wanting to propose to me soon? I do want to marry him and he is a sweetheart and very caring and concerned about my feelings, i just want to know if I'm seeing the right signs or my mind is just clouded by what I want.
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Without all the details, I think you are on the track to marriage. You've been together for a year, and lived together for 3 months, which, sadly, is far more than a lot of relationships. The fact that he's talking about this makes it pretty easy. Men hate this stuff, and generally avoid it like the plaugue. He wouldn't say it if he wasn't seriously considering it. How soon is difficult to say, but, barring any sort of catastrophe, I'd expect a ring by Christmas.
You never should have moved in with him, problems typically arise in a marriage if you move in together as a trial period even if it was your idea. He sounds serious, but I would give it ONE more month since you are at the year mark and you've been living together for three months, he's seen enough at this point. If he doesn't propose within a month, start looking for a new place. Sorry, but you don't move in with a man unless you have a ring AND a wedding date set.
The best way to find out if he is really serious about wanting to propose to you is for you to move out into your own place.
Stop giving him sex on demand ( if you are already addicted to having sex with him on a regular basis as though you are already married) , which is probably why you moved in in the first place and then talk to him about how soon he will be interested in marriage. That will guarantee action on his part.
If he's spoken to his best friend and a neighbor about wedding plans, he's serious about getting married.
I think he is serious. Moving in was the first step that he was ready for commitment. Now the desire to get informed about weddings is the clincher. Let me be the first to congratulate you on your nearing engagement.
No. Sorry, but he's not going to propose. Why should he? You moved in together. There's nothing more to look forward to other than to some kind of commitment, and that ain't gonna happen.
girl i think he is serious but if you just aren't ready or it is a little too soon then tell him that i'm sure he will understand
Duh!! if he's telling people about it then he sounds serious, what do you need him to sky write it for you?? if marriage wasn't the next step why did you move in together???
If that is what he's been talking about then it must be what he wants.
well if he told his bff he is probably serious