Serious problem with my step sister...?
I don't want to go through my whole life story so I'm gonna try to sum it up...
I'm 15, I have a 22 year old brother (he lives alone in an apartment) my mom passed away when I was seven. since then my dad has been really depressed. after about 2 years my dad got married to a woman with two daughters more like two nightmares. me and my two step sisters fight 24/7 specially with the older one (she's 16 and the younger one is 14), we've been together for 6 years now and I am SO SICK of them. my dad always ignores me and if we fight he always makes ME apologize and my step mother is so annoying and treats me badly and I can't stand her. I feel like cinderella here !
lately things have been really bad, me and my step mother and her daughters are not talking to each other and dad is always mad at me and I feel like he hates me for not talking to them maybe cause it makes my step mom angry with him, I don't know.
So now I'm in a tough situation should I stay with my dad and put up with my step family's crap or should I go and stay with my brother.
Honestly and don't want to do neither. so can anyone help me,please?
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First of all, you are 15. Its not up to you where you live. You are a minor. Your Dad makes you apologize to keep peace in the family and he more than likely expects more from you then he does your step-sisters because he believes you to be the better, more mature person. I know that does not help right now but when you are an adult you will understand and appreciate that. He believes you are capable of making the right decision. Families do not always get along perfectly but they are still your family and now is when you learn the coping skills that you will utilize for the rest of your life dealing with people in the workplace (and home). You should not run away from your problems. It does not sound like an abusive situation which would be a totally different answer. Do your part to make the family unit get along better. Be the better person and it will follow you from now on! And even if you never get along with them, you(and your father) will know that you did your very best and he will respect you for that and you will grow to be proud of yourself for it!
well I agree you are like Cinderella but plus the option of moving in with your brother. I think you should seriously talk to your dad and try to get him to see from your point of view for the last time wait a few days maybe talk to your step sister but if that really doesn't work I think it would be the best thing for you to move in with your brother
hope this helps a little.
Well I really don't know what to say but I will try to answer that question. Well u think that your dad makes u say sorry because your more meture then ur sister and then go to the step mother what dose she not like about u and if this dose not work just go live with ur brother wish u luck😀
It would be best to stay with your brother and tell him about what's going on between you and your step family. He. might help you with the problem get him to speak to your father and solve the problem between you 4 your step mum probably jealous of you the fact she doesn't have a child with your dad or it might be the way you treat them. Ask, get your brother to help. Your dad probably making you apologise to see the mature side of you
This is just my opinion but I think you should go stay with your brother until you cool down and then if you still feel that you want to go back to your dad then you should do that because you don't want your step sisters to think they ran you out your own house hope this helped :-)
ok I have a perfect plain so they are not talking to you I got a perfect idea if you don't have family dinner make one it might be hard but do it and then when everyone is sitting down talking ask your step sister if you would wont to play with me and like fly a kit or not then the parents would hear it and be happy plus your dad and if they don't answer your dad might relizes it is not your fault then happy I know you would not wont to be with them but what I would do is kill them with kindness it might be hard but it will work and if they then try to kill you with kindness then act happy and don't get annoyed take some deep breaths and count to ten or anything but don't let them think your angry
I would rather you go with your brother than stay with drama all day and night. There you don't have to worry about anything. just yourself. Stay in school and try your best.
i think its best u live with your brother