How to turn my boyfriend into a dominate sexual partner?
Ok, this is a little embarrassing but most recently my best friend introduced me into the 50 shades of grey trilogy and ive been completely and utterly consumed by Mr Christian Grey (no spoilers please) ( and yes im fully aware he's not real) i find myself having erotic dream of being dominated, not entirely based on pain but yes i want to be dominated to a certain extent of course. How do i get my boyfriend of 2 years to try this with me with out seeming crazy or a freak nasty lol. (sorry if this question is a little erotic but im just simply curious) im not trying to turn him into Mr Grey but i would like to explore that side of my sexuality. (please answer seriously) (also im 20 years old as of yesterday ) thanks!
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Well if you don't want to be aggressive about asking him to do this, then just casually talk about the book with him and make little jokes about the sex in it...give him details about it but make it seem like you're just telling him, then drop a hint that you wouldn't mind trying some of the stuff. Lol I'm sure this guy wouldn't mind trying this out with you. Try to be coy about it. Tease him a little if you have to. Trust me this guy will get the hint. Good luck!
Start by introducing mild "bedroom BDSM"-blindfold, Velcro restraints.. Always be on the receiving end. Next introduce role play...you may have to "top from the bottom" temporarily by being the sub but pushing him which way to go. The one caveat is that it is a personality trait and not all men can dominate, if it is not comfortable to him he won't be able to do it.
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