Orgasm problem with partner?
we love each other too much and have great sense of understanding. I tried lot and used different styles and techniques as written in different books with positions but she never got orgasm. I also spent too much time on foreplay and after play but not succeeded. what is this magic, we yet don't know. But I want to give her extreme pleasure as it is her right because she gives me maximum. please tell me what should we do. Remember we can not use unethical ways like licking and sucking etc.
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Licking and sucking are not "unethical", they're very enjoyable actions during sex. Nothing is "unethical" in sex if both partners agree to it and it doesn't cause harm.
First off, try using oral. Every woman loves getting good oral from her man and it brings intense orgasms.
Second, communicate. Ask her what she does when she masturbates to orgasm. Ask her what she wants you to do during sex.
Third, try various positions. Many women have intense orgasms from doing sex rear entry or "doggie style" while others prefer woman on top or "cowgirl" Vary your positions to see which gives her the more intense orgasm.
Fouth, incorporate vibrators into your sex play. Most women can orgasm easily while using their vibrator. Just incorporate hers into your sexual activity.
Lastly, have her see a therapist. A good therapist can help her to resolve any issues she has about sex and vastly improve her sex life.
First I want to just say that licking or sucking is not unethical. What you could do is ask her how she pleasures herself, or guide your hand to where it feels good. I'm sure she knows because it's her own body.