Fear, temper, foot fetish, Alpha Female, Lisa?
Just an example of what I have to deal with:
I came home the other day and I thought i was alone in the house. I put my keys down and took off my shoes and stuff when out of nowhere I get spun around and I simultaneously see a flash and feel pain on the side of my face.
Lisa landed one of her insane kickboxing high kicks. Before I know it I'm on my back and my arms are getting all twisted up and my shoulder is killing me. Lisa is on top of me and she "demands" an explanation for my tardiness in coming home from work. I told her to release me from whatever submission hold she had me in and she yelled at me to "Shut my a** up"!
She said I had to pay the penalty for being home late, and before I can say "10 minutes is hardly late" she jams her bare foot in my face and forces me to kiss her toes. I can't do anything about it because if I resist she will add pressure to the submission hold she has me in and i do not want to end up in a sling or worse.
She then demanded me to "admit" she has the most beautiful feet, that they are perfect, and she has the highest and prettiest arches. She loves putting her feet in my face and loves when anyone pays them any attention. She is completely obsessed with her feet that it's scary! She keeps them perfectly pedicured and has a thousand pairs of shoes!
She tells me she will not let me up until I show her I'm sorry by submitting to her and kissing her feet. I especially hate when she does this after her training session because her feet are sweaty and they smell.
After she finally lets me up and is satisfied with my apology she goes right back to being nice to me like nothing ever happened! I've told her that I can't deal with this mess and she won't listen. I've even heard her giggling with her girlfriends from the dojo about the stuff she makes me do.
Lisa grew up in a broken home and i know she has problems with her temper and this goddess complex/foot fetish or obsession thing, but I know she's a good person deep down. This doesn't happen everyday or anything but I'll admit it happens too often. I just don't know how to go about handling this situation. Anytime I mention our relationship it just sets her off and she says I can never leave her followed by a beating and major feet kissing!
Any suggestions?
1. I can't beat her up because she's physically too powerful for me.
2. Calling the cops is out of the question. She is too pretty and innocent looking that the cops will not ever believe me.
3. Just walking out the door and saying it's over will land me in the hospital.
Update:See my other question(s). Lisa is my girlfriend.
Comments
Marry her.
Better yet, beg for her permission to grovel at her feet. Beg for her permission to submit to her. Beg in front of her friends from the dojo. And then beg her to take you as her husband.
Trust me on this. It's too late for you. You will never find another kinkster like her. And you will miss the intensity. You will doom yourself to a life of vanilla sex if you run from this, always yearning for another Lisa, for another Goddess.
Look inside yourself. You know if you really hated it you would have left by now.
You haven't left, have you?
Beg her to let you stay forever.
Have fun!
Is she your adopted child? ( you didn`t mention who she is)
That girl has major issues. Who puts their footh in somone`s face and makes them kiss it. Don`t let her walk all over you. Just because she`s from a broken home doesn`t mean that you should feel sorry for her because that won`t do either of you any good.
Yes, but generally guys have foot fetishes.
really, i have to be the one to respond to this. fine then. ok so what you have to do to keep it from happening again is to take classes yourself, get stronger than her and see how she likes it. or you could start having a foot fetish either one. ( Go with the first option, you might be on top for once lol.)
Either start picking out your coffin, or else.. Restraining order. Move ot another town.
Or you could just start to enjoy it. Some guys do.
If you dont walk out your going to end up in hospital anyway so WALK AWAY m8
Read this and be happy
wow you are a fool!