Do you ever feel empty inside?
As if something was missing, a part of you isn't there. It feels like I need someone. I've been single since the 4th grade which doesn't count.
Im very nice to girls, funny sometimes but I'm not very outgoing and social unless they start the talking. I got turned down at least twice.
I've learned to keep my head up and ignore some cause for some reason I try and get all the girls I see to like me. . smh what I hate the most is I always walk around like I got a big ego and I try and keep it that way by not starting a convo. as if I'm too good. .
But even then girls don't give me a chance to show the real me. Why?
So how should I go by this, is patience the way to go do I need to change my ways?
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its common for people to feel either lonely or empty. so you are not alone and its not you it good even if its fake to give a confident vibe but if you can fake it then you can take it back. if acting confident is your shell then dont put it down yet just little by little act less stuck up and egotistical let your real self show. and why not be confident? you dont have to fake it to be it. learn to love yourself and things will get easier. you dont have to be outgoing or the star of the show to make and keep friends. as for the girls be very careful especially if you like one of them...if your too nice theyll label you a friend and if its kinds hard for us to take you seriously as a boyfriend if your like a brother to us. be nice but if your interested put a little more attitude into how you act with them tell them "hey i like and respect you as a friend but maybe one day we could be more" with your personalty. and let them know a little about you but dont dump it all on them. with time drop a little more information , e like Mystery, unless your gonna be our new bestie we dont want to know EVERYTHING about you and defiantly not all at once. be yourself and things will get better
Well i don't know. Maybe you are a really sensitive person that is not superficial that's why you feel strange carrying the demands that this society asks of us like walking around like you have a big ego ( i could be way off topic here).
But for me, yes i have felt very empty inside. Not like something is missing but completely and utterly barren. It's a horrible feeling but i got over it. I've come to find the things that make me happy.
And i do feel lonely for not having anyone whom i can have a relationship with. But well those are just feelings and feelings pass.
I'm pretty sure you will find someone since the human population is pretty large these days. =]
Be yourself. It is too much stress when you try to be someone you are not. There is no law that says you have to start the conversation to be a good friend.
Find a hobby ? Music and singing always makes me feel better, And find friends which you can open up to, and talk to confidently, I always feel better when your safe with friends or family who you can trust
Well, i feel empty when im hungrey? does that count?
well i think just carry on going, try to make some friends and soon you will find the right one !:)
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just talk to every girl you are interested in.. you may get rejected at first but who cares.. the more you do it the more natural it will come to you
Yes but I suffer from severe depression so that's normal to me.
You can't care so much about what other people think. Free yourself from that burden.