Why do wifes nag?
women are the most amazing people on earth then you marry them and its nag nag nag!!!
I was tricked its all sex all the time then you pop the question and the life of misery starts.
Update:What happened to the old days the man came home from work the wife did not bother him he put his feet up and his wife made him a drink and got his slippers while he read the paper before
eating the dinner she prepared.
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If she stays at home tell her to shut up and get the dinner on the damm table
You are HIGH if you think that's a equal loving partnership where marriage is all sex. Good lord.
I pity your wife if you are married.
As everyone else has said, men want no responsibility when married, ONLY when they want to .. well the household doesn't operate that way.
So have some balls, do your part and your wife won't nag. You do your part it makes a happy household, happy household = all the sex you'd want
In fact probably more and then you'll be on here "nagging" saying you can't keep up with your wife lol
Good Luck!
Ahhhhh, I can see where you are coming from. Yes, you are right somewhat. Sex happens a lot and then you get married and settle down and the nagging starts.
Well - a big reason for that is that dating is "FUN" and marriage is a "PARTNERSHIP". So, common sense tells us that there aren't responsibilities with dating - you go out, play, have sex, etc...
Marriage on the otherhand is more like a business. There are chores, paying bills, responsibilities, etc... So, it is unrealistic to expect dating to be like marriage when they are two completely different animals.
If your wife is nagging, the best way to get rid of the nagging is to write out a list of chores and responsibilities for each person. Of course it should be pretty equal (i.e., not I make money, she makes money and she does all the household chores).
Once you write out this list of chores/responsibilities - then talk it over with her and agree on your individual responsibilities in the relationship.
Once you have this list finished and agreed upon (just like any business relationship) - you will now eliminate the nagging because you both have communicated with each other successfully and you both know what your responsibilities are and what the other person's expectations are!!!
The plural form of "wife" is "wives." Sheesh.
We don't all nag. Perhaps you should try listening to your wife once and a while...maybe then she wouldn't have to nag you. Make enough money to support her so that she doesn't have to work, send her to the spa, and shopping...then she might be waiting for you when you get home with open arms and dinner on the table. Otherwise, she's had just as rough a day as you have, buddy. If you pissed and moaned all the time, then yeah...i'd nag your a** too.
I'm sorry that you're unhappy. My philosophy is that I remind my husband once. After that, it's considered nagging.
I do get disappointed when he sometimes still forgets to do something that he needed to do or that I needed his help with. It's like what was important to me wasn't important to him. Still, I don't sweat the small stuff and realize that I cannot control what anyone else chooses to do or not do. After all, I'm not perfect either.
Marriage is a lot more than just sex. Surely, you didn't go into it with such limited knowledge! Maybe if you were a more thoughtful, helpful husband that cared about more than satisfying your physical needs, she would have no reason to ask anything of you.
By the way, the plural form of "wife" is "wives."
How many times must I say this...?? THIS DOES NOT JUST HAPPY GUYS!!
As a woman, I am proud to say that I enjoy being female! I love the diversity of thought and my emotions. BUT, I also know I can be very vindictive. Women can be conniving. (Not that men can't but they aren't like women...calculating.)
Women show you signs of who they are when you are dating them. I am POSITIVE that any guy who is married now and miserable because of 'changed' premises, simply ignored what was seriously wrong with the woman they married. Understand that guys runn AT a problem. So, chances are when you met your woman she was a stack of conflicting mess but you wanted to solve it. Or she 'looked' incredible. She may have no personality, but unfourtunatly, some men are not about internal stuff at first...they need to pick what is on the outside to be interested.
Next time try to think with the head on top of your body first!
If you would listen she would not have to nag. It is not all sex, all the time. It can be lots of sex, but other things need to be done to maintain having a life and home.
men nag too! for some reason though, they can do the same thing, but it's never called nagging. Some people nag, others dont. Dont go blaming the whole gender because your does:).
thats why you keep them as girlfriends. some women (believe it or not) dont nag mine doesnt, she understands that when i come home im tired she does ask me for small things, take out the trash which i do. unlike my parents (when i lived with them) they dont put the bags in random places of the house and have me try to find them all she just puts them all in one spot.
sex is great, wonderful, but guess what, there are responsibilities too. help with those without being asked and there will be no nagging, and you will get more sex! when my baby is home, he does more work around the house than i do, and trust me, he gets all the sex he wants!