How do I impress her?
I have a g/f that is great at everything she does. I want to be able to do something that will impress her, but I can't think of anything SHE can't do better. I feel like I'm just making a fool of myself. The only half-impressive thing I can do is play the guitar and sing. BUT, she is way better than me at BOTH. So my best card got ripped out of the deck and lit on fire! Any ideas?
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I'll give you some ideas that I am using on my girlfriend. (2 Years older than me, and a varsity cheerleader. Hells Yeah)
1) Play something for her. (Hero by Enrique is what I played for mine to ask her out.) Even if she is better than you, she will still think it's cute.
2) When talking on the Phone or Facebook (don't text please, but that's just me) try to say "Hey Beautiful" or "Hello Gorgeous" 3) Randomly when talking to her go "Guess what? I'm talking to the most beautiful girl on Facebook/World/Etc. Right now"
4) Post cute things on her wall like: "I'd try to find all the words to describe you but there aren't enough synonyms for "Beautiful" and "Amazing." ♥"
5) Never go to bed without saying "Goodnight, I Love You"
6) If she says she is cold, keep your mouth shut and put your coat on her shoulders. (I did this in a Snowstorm we were walking in, she said I was stupid then we ended up cuddling for warmth when we got to our destination"
7) When she has a problem, ask her what's wrong and LISTEN. Don't try to give her a solution unless she wants it (ask her when in doubt).
8) Tell her she is the only girl you can see yourself with. (For me that's actually true).
9) When you are walking side to side, hold out your hand and let her take it. Then play with her fingers and tell her that your hands fit perfectly together.
10) Get her a simple "Key to my Heart necklace" Look at the Jewelry she has to see if she wears mainly gold or silver and buy accordingly.
11) REALLY GOOD ONE: Get her a mirror and give her a card with it that says "I got you a picture of the most beautiful girl in the world so every time you see her you know how happy she makes me"
Hope this helps you. Have a Good day. =]
A question for you, do you want a relationship or a competition?
Two things any man can do if he REALLY wants to impress a woman:
1) Look her in the eye (instead of her cleavage) and really listen when she talks to you. If you can show her through comments and related questions that you are really listening to her. This gives her the message that what she has to say is important enough for you to pay attention to what she has to say.
2) When she does something that impresses you, give her a sincere compliment to let her know just how great you think she is. This will let her know that you love and respect her for who she is, not who you wish she was.
If you can do these two things, trust me, she will be plenty impressed.
Love and Light,
Pamela M. Joy
www.MistressOfMagic.com
u dont need to impress she is with u becase she likes u how u are
but u can impress her by being the guy of her dreams be a true gentalman take her out to a fun place or nice dinner make her feel special
she cant be a better boyfriend then u ...shes a girl (yeah lame joke hahaha )
why do you need to impress her if she is already your gf? , or did you mean girl "friend" thus wanting her to be your girlfriend?
In that case you could impress her by learning to play a favorite song of hers or play and sing her favorite song. If you don't want to do that then you could plan a date or something, i don't think you need to be better than her in anything because if she sees Ur sincerity then she would probably understand what you want.
hope it works out , peace
of course you guys can sing and play guitar, but have you made up a song for her (as in lyrics and guitar notes that goes with the words )? that'd be a great idea, shows creativity and shows how much you really love her
Make a Duet. That will show her your thinking about her AND want to spend time with her and show her how much you care.
It may not 'Impress' Her. But really, Flattery is better than being impressed by a guy.
She will LOVE it.
Good Luck.
Find an amazing love song to sing for her that she can't play on the guitar--sing her to sleep!
Well, the ways boys impress me is that they're a gentleman. And not just to me. I love it when I see them helping other people, holding doors open for others, speaking kindly, not being a jerk, etc.
You don't have try to hard to impress her just be yourself and find out something that you both are really good at
Do a duet with her on guitar and help her to give you pointers which she'll think your sweet for trying to improve