Do i deserve a second chance?
I never treated my gf bad. Never did i yell at her. Never did i call her names. I gave her all my respect nd love. Ive been wit her for a year and a half. I transfered high schools so i can be wit her all the time. I never asked for anything in return for the things i did. I always loved her. Three days after i asked her out We havent made a week together i kissed another girl. Now she wont give me a chnace/:
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1 = I never treated my gf bad
2 = I gave her all my respect nd love. Ive been wit her for a year and a half.
3 = I always loved her
We havent made a week together i kissed another girl .
Sounds like a smart girl that has self respect and you are a moron !
You need to ask yourself if you love her - like.. do you think she's the one and only for you? because if she is then you need to work your a** off to get her to trust you. Talk to her, send her flowers, explain it was a mistake and just do everything you can!! Remember the little things she liked or something she's always wanted to do and do it with her.
If you don't or think you'll cheat again then don't. move on and let go.
also you need to think why you cheated? Was it because you were drunk? Were you two arguing? Or were there no issues at the time? because this will change the way she feels about the situation. She can't trust you anymore and it makes it hard.
I don't mean to be harsh but from my opinion no one who cheats deserves a second chance unless you want to spend the rest of your life with her and are really sorry.
Once you break the trust factor, there's not a whole lot that can be said or done. It's basically left in her hands how she will handle it. To you, and many others, it may just seem like a "simple kiss", but from a woman's perspective, it would make me question from there on out.
Maybe give her some time to think things through without pressure, fighting or arguing. Sometimes when cooler heads shine through we can think more clearly rather than acting out of hurt and anger. Good luck to you.
PS
Stop kissing other girls! :0)
If yhou loved your gf so much why did you kiss the other girl, was it to make you gf jealeous or what? what I would have done in your shoes was continue doing what you were doing with your gf and she would have come around or just got tired of you. ether way we will never know. Since you kissed the other girl. Do you want your gf back or do you want to move on? Depending on why you kissed the other girl, if you did it cuz your ready to move on then you don't need a 2nd chance. if you did it cuz you felt a need. You need to tell your gf you need to talk to her about how you feel, you cannot have a good relationship with anyone with out communication.
It doesnt matter if we think you deserve a second chance or not. What matters is you didnt give things a chance before showing her that you cant be trusted. Kissing the other girl told her that you would do as you pleased & not respect or consider her feelings. Its no different than cheating. If she kissed another boy how would you feel? Would it be ok & would you give her another chance to hurt your feelings again?
Yes you definitely deserve as second chance. Girls generally don't object on you being with others because they are jealous of them, its mostly because it makes them feel worthless or not good enough to deserve you. If you can somehow make your girl feel that it was a mistake and you didn't mean to hurt her then it should be ok.
P.s. If she already doesn't know then don't tell her.
Cheating is cheating. It may have been a meaningless kiss to you, but it was all about trust, respect and broken promises for her. Personally, if it were my husband, I wouldn't divorce him over a kiss. But what you or I think is irrelevant. This is completely her choice to make. Consider it a lesson learned.
No. It's your fault for kissing another girl. That's not love buddy. Learn to live with your mistakes and don't be so stupid to do that again when you are dating a girl.
Leave it for her to decide, if she does love you, she will forgive you! Show her that you are very sorry, give her some time and never do such thing again. Good luck !
You must be kidding yourself You dont deserve a second chance because you blew it. and you know it. Once you kiss another girl. you have already decided what to do. What ? Do you want double dipping?