the saga continues: baby momma drama?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvIMr... this is a question i posted about a week ago. well today my husbands ex calls him arguing about him not going to see his daughter and he again brings up taking a DNA test. she finally agreeing to get a test done and we are getting in touch with a place to make an appointment. well its been a few months since he last seen her but not always because of him. he would call to set up a meeting but she is always on punishment or spending time with her cousins. so my husband just stopped calling. for fathers day all the ex did was send my husband a happy fathers day text. so do you think my husband is wrong for not visiting his daughter? or should he continue to keep his distance till a DNA test is done?
Update:Beauty: we've been together for 8 years and have 2 beautiful boys together. i'm not complaining i'm conserned. i love my stepdaughter very much and want her to be apart of our family just as much as with her mothers family. and as for a chemistry between my husband and his ex, she is 9 years and 200lb too late. he dont want her.
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I think the child is getting punished the most here. He needs to go see her as much as he can just for her sake. Of course still get a test done, but from the sounds of it he won't be seeing the girl much anyways.
Next time baby momma calls ranting tell her Ive tried many times to see my daughter and you won't allow it unless its convenient for you. If were going to work at this until the test we can either work together or you just need to leave me alone until I find out if I need to take you to court for visitation.
Regardless, he needs to take the test and get visitation as one you have a right to know his daughter considering you are her step-mom and he is her father. The both of you are entitled to a life with her if she is in fact his.
This baby momma needs to grow up and get with it. shes not going to get your husband back just because they have a kid together. And if shes trying to use well you cant see her against him, fine. Test and rights. If she tries to keep the child away then, she will go to jail.
I will advice you not to date any man with strings attached to him because the strings will always get pulled . Been cought in a situation like yours once and it was all jealousy competition , arguement and complain like how you are doing now ....i was getting depressed but today i am better off . He was the weakest link in my life . Bet you, if you stay in it ....you will lose some kind of happiness.A word to the wise is enough .If you dont have kids with him yet you should cuz you may be going for a DNA urself oneday .I can sense a form of chemistry betweem ur husband and his ex , they are not over with each other .
Of course it's WRONG for your husband not to go see his daughter. If he was truly worried about it he would have had a court ordered DNA test done & would have been fighting for visitation rights.Are you worried about him seeing his daughter & the fact he will have more contact with his EX? If he was out batting he needs to step up to the plate get the DNA test done & start seeing & taking care of his daughter!
He should keep his distance for the mean time if she is not helping in the matter of him really being there as a father shes just trying to pesterize the both of u.. let the courts deal with this drama its the best u can do...is the baby was really the case and the only case to her bugging she would be more coapoative wit him and do things rite ....dont u think ??? dosn't sound like thats her intenstion here...
This is like when Bin Laden gave one of his wives too many camels when she gave birth. It was a huge Osama Baby Mama Laama Drama.