Hypothetical problem, please assist?
The husband is wealthy and married to a school teacher. She wants him to buy her a new car, but she wants a car that's way beyond her pay check can afford. What kind of car do you think is appropriate for her seeing that she is a school teacher? Why should he have to put out for a new Range Rover, that's crap. He suggested a few options closer to her pay grade but she is not happy even though I am paying the bill and to her it's FREE. He is already the owner of some exotic cars and he thinks he has already spent a lot of sports cars to spend so much more. Seeing that she already has access to those cars is she not being really unreasonable. Typical female behaviour. I really don't see why she is angry when she cannot afford to buy it with her salary. He cannot be expected to keep spending so much on cars.
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Being married means that your money is also her money and vice versa. If you didn't want to share your resources with another person, you probably shouldn't have gotten married. Expecting your wife to live a much more meager lifestyle than you just because her job pays less than yours is just plain weird and insulting. Her "pay grade" should have never come into the conversation. The marriage is doomed.
She isn't really in the position to make such demands because at the end of the day, it's not her money. She can leave if she wishes and it's not so much a problem if there was a prenup. Perhaps it's a sign that he should do some legal transfers of his property to a safe name before she tries anything funny. Can't rely on just trust these days.
well it's not real its just made up so- it doesn't matter and isn't a problem
if it was real
i'd just drive the cars they already have...no big deal
If they already have a handful of cars i think it's pointless to buy more anyway, regardless.
It's their decision, as husband and wife, at the end of the day
She better wise up and go according to her means; the more expensive the car the higher the premium and as we all know greenbacks don't grow on trees.
They sell all the cars, give the money to charity, walk to the workplace and improve their cardiovascular health.
Done.
That all depends on what sharing of wealth they agreed to when they entered their marriage.
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