How to spice up a marriage?
Ever since we had our daughter our sex life has slowed down big time. With work,our daughter and our house renovation it seems like we never get a chance to be alone together. When we finally get a chance it seems like we are just getting sex out of the way almost like scratching it off a list of things to do. I want to spice things up again any ideas are welcomed.
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Small things can add to your sex life..Try writing her a sexy note and put it in her car or purse where she can find it and read it later. Send her some naughty text messages through out the day of things you want to do to her. Try turning on the radio and grab her for a slow dance in the kitchen or living room. When you guys sit down for dinner, light some candles and sit them on the table. You guys could put on a porn and mimic the positions to see if you can come up with new ones you like. Get her a naked massage, not you naked but her naked. start with her on on her belly and then have her roll over onto her back. Bring some toys into the bedrooom. Get her a vibrator and use it on her, and yourself a pocket vajay and have her use it on you. Or you can have her use the toy on herself and you use the pocket vajay while watching her. blind fold her and take a piece of ice to her nipples, down the valley to her belly button and suck the water out, the down further to her.......you can figure it out. Romance really helps when your sex life has slowed. Send her flowers to work ro take her some yourself on lunch break....
Sex is in the bedroom, but love isn't! What does your wife like?
If she loves a massage give her one and keep it at just that, no strings attached. Tell her I'll watch the kids, go take a long bath (in an ideal world you would have bought her the smelly bath stuff she likes!)
My husband has started doing the dishes (since I have a chronic back problem) and I feel so much better about him, it works in all fields of our life!
Stewart it may very well add some spice to your life if you have an open mind. Besides ever if you do not purchase anything it will give you two of lots ideas to discuss and give each other ideas of what each might like to try. Best of luck.
With all this happening in your life
I,m not surprised its slowed down
Your just both too tired to enjoy it
But it wont all ways be this way
Things will settle down for you
And your sex life will return to normal
Random unexpected sex! In the kitchen, in the shower or go parking (get a grandparent to babysit). Don't plan it out, that loses the "rawness" of it! Remember, even though you are married, a parent and in love, sometimes SEX is better than making love!
Buy the book Kama Sutra and both of you read it while your in bed. It offers several way to spice up your life from sensual massages to a variety of ways to make love. My mother gave me one for a wedding present 20 years ago and I love it even today.
try wearing something sexy or perhaps role playing?
try sex in different places OUTSIDE Of the bedroom and try to have sex when hes least expecting it
good luck!
Ask your wifey to bring another chick to bed with you guys.
hmmm wear nice perfume and beautiful clothes around him.
dress something sexy