My GF has Self Esteem Problems?
she always asks about her looks or if she`s fat... she`s super thin beautiful skin and light brown hair. SO I SEE NO FLAW! she has a real upbeat attitude but when we`re together she always seems to not feel confident.
I always try to say how pretty she is or how good she looks and what not but she still has the same concerned look on her face.
what do I do?
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just keep saying it
and give her lots of non-sexual physical affection
A lot of guys give value to women based on their looks and never
bother to investigate their personality. You might end up with a very
messed up girl who can suck energy right out of you day and night.
There are women out there who are highly insecure about themselves
even though they might be extremely good looking. These women will
seek validation from you all the time in order to feel good about
themselves but the main problem is that they never feel validated no
matter how much validation you give them.
They tend to have a never-ending hunger to satisfy their emotional
needs, which can never be fulfilled. And this is the part where it gets
scary…They might even use sex as a tool to have their needs
fulfilled.
A lot of guys fall into this trap and often get blinded by the
attractiveness of the girl. This is where the problem starts…Some
men are too fast to enter into relationships with attractive women just
because they are good looking and tend to regret it highly later on.
A very common example of this are women who are in relationships
but still go out and have sex with other men. You see they tend to do
it because as already mentioned they have a never-ending hunger to
satisfy their emotional needs and no matter how many men they go
out with…It’s never fulfilled.
These women tend to be pretty low on self-esteem due to which they
give easy sex to any man in exchange for his appreciation for her
beauty. She would sleep with any man just as a boost to her selfesteem.
In most cases, these women are total drama queens and would
always have something or the other going wrong in their life…They
would know how to make a mess out of a totally perfect situation.
They also use manipulation in certain cases only because they don’t
feel they are worthy enough or deserve all the good life has to offer.
This is why they always say that looks can be deceiving. Therefore,
always pay a lot of attention to her personality and get to know her
deeply before you think about getting into a relationship with her.
She will realize it one day. I use to have that problem but I had BDD I took madicine for it.
The younger she is, the worse her body image will be...
She's a girl so she'll always be this way unless she spontaneously grows a nut-sack. Welcome to women.
continue to be supportive; eventually she'll see what you see