Addicted to Porn, no self esteem/confidence help?
I honestly don't know whats up with me recently. I prefer staying home and just want porn and masturbate when i have the urge to.
Im a 16 year old, i lack self esteem and confidence and i usually isolate myself from people because i think its best for them. I can controll the urge to visit my favourite porn site, mainly because I'd be really bored and i jack off 3-4 a week...its like a never ending cycle. .rinse and repeat. I just need help on tackling this problem, my parents don't know about it...been watching it since i was 10..never had a girlfriend and i think i long lost interest in talking to girls.
I CANT STAND THIS ANY LONGER AND THIS SHOULD CHANGE! What should i do???
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Wow. Well, the only way to have confidence is to put yourself in social situations. Don't be afraid of rejection, do not be afraid of being made fun of. I used to be incredibly socially awkward, I was so quiet people would make fun of me. But all I did was put myself out there. Highschool sucks. It really does, I wish I could go back in time and tell myself that none of that stuff I used to be so worried about mattered. You need to go out and socialize. Go do something. I used to have horrible self esteem. I didn't think I was smart enough, or funny enough, I felt awkward and weird, but being social and having confidence is something you have to practice. And just lay off the porn. Find something else that interests you.
Find a hobby other than masturbation. Meet some nice people to become friends with, get to know them, a girlfriend will come eventually. Masturbation is completely normal, most porn is unreal though, especially for high school people, so don't get your hopes up too much on the sex thing.
Get to a doctor and get over this degenerate activity. It's human degradation. You are defiling yourself and ruining your life.
god is testing us to care aobut everyone purely love god and love good people who care(our neighbors) .i am meant to use willpower and careing to choose agiasnt th ethings that distract me form good and careing.
https://www.waterstones.com/book/the-chimp-paradox...