Transgender girl as roommate problems?
So, here's the problem. I just moved into my college dorms, and I met my roommate. She is transgender, but I thought it wouldn't be an issue seeing as my brother is transgender (transitioned from female to male is 2011), and she isn't as nice as I would like, but it's a college roommate, who cares.
So, this morning, I woke up to my roommate, staring into the mirror next to my bed, jacking off. I turned around and pushed my face into my pillow, hoping to get the mental picture out of my head, but I was pissed off. I get that people have needs, but either masturbate in the bathroom (I live in a suite-style dorm with a private bathroom), or masturbate in bed, NOT NEXT TO YOUR ROOMMATE'S HEAD. There's even a bit of semen on my desk, which really grosses me out.
Later that evening, I walked into my room to see my roommate, trying out my underwear and makeup in the mirror. I went to get the RA, but when I came back, my roommate was showering in the washroom, and my underwear was put away. I was told to stop being bigoted, or else I'd be evicted.
Now this morning, I was in the bathroom, changing my pad, when my roommate unlocked the door with her fingernail, and then screamed when she realised I was changing my pad, calling me all kinds of gross, and hurtful names. Then when I rushed out of the bathroom with her standing right in front of me, she said that I have an ugly vagina (wtf).
What do I do?
Update:Please answer seriously. I'm seriously hating my dorm right now. I'm not bashing the entire LGBTQ+ community, especially because I'm asexual. I seriously need help.
Comments
Your RA sounds like a regular asshole for threatening to evict you rather than your roommate who is obviously acting like a creep. I implore you not to judge all transwomen based on your experiences with this pervert. Try to find your way out of this situation, request a new roommate, take your case to Res Life or even the Dean of Student Admissions if that is what it takes. Screw your RA, nobody can force you to have a roommate you don't want. Get out of there.
Obviously, you need a troll roommate.
Go to housing and explain everything you just wrote. Forget the RA.
Troll fail, dear. I'd explain all the ways this didn't work, but I doubt you'd understand.
Go away troll.