Shy Guy Problems...Gosh. Avoiding eye contact?
What's up with shy Guys and Avoiding eye contact with girls?
I have a crush on this shy guy, and he knows I like him a lot.
One time I went by him, and he tried to look away, but I could sort of see him glancing at me and smiling. Then after that day, my class and his class was going on a trip, and I decided to sit next to him, and he never tried to look or turn around towards me. Even though his friends were also beside me. His friends kept bothering him and telling him to turn around, and he wouldn't. All he did was blush. Then one of his friends said "WHY ARE YOU SO NERVOUS AROUND GIRLS?" But I know he isn't. He's able to talk to about all of my friends. But he mostly talks to 2 of them. I wonder why he wouldn't look at me and tries to avoid talking to me too. His other friends said that he's going to "fail"(as in relationships i guess?). Then one of his other friends that was in front of him was like "Oh I bet he's thinking: I wanna look soooo badly!" Then one of his Best best friends told a teacher to make him look at me, but then the teacher asked "Why isn't he turning around exactly?" Then his best friend said that it was because I "like" him, and he "Loves" me. >.< I'm confused. Whenever I'm not near him, he stares at me from a distance a lot longer than when if I'm near him, he just looks quickly away. Sorta seems like he freaks out? I don't know. Guys are hard to crack open. Is he just shy or what?! I mean, what's the problem with looking at me?
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the dude's pretty shy...i mean i guess i would consider myself kinda shy, but its nothing compared to this guy. well he obviously likes you or he wouldn't pay you any attention at all. just walk up to him and start talking (if he's that shy then you will be doing most of it) pretty soon he should open up to you, but if not then maybe you should start looking for someone else.
He's not interested in you. If he was, he'd be all over you. Please don't let these gay males fool you into believing they are interested in you but are just shy. There are more gay males than you realize. and they are NOT shy, they have loving, long-term, fulfilling relationships with other males and they avoid eye contact with you, and you are so young and inexperienced that you cannot see the forest for the trees. You think they have crushes on you because they avoid eye contact. No. they avoid eye contact most likely because their significant other/boyfriend is right there in the room with you amongst your group of friends. You'll have a lot of males hanging around you but none of them will try to talk to you or chat you up, or make any kind of romantic move on you/ask you for your number. Now why is that? Are they all too shy? No, my darling. Open your eyes. Open them WIDE. Your crush is most likely just another gay male (with a bf). I'm really sorry but I'm just trying to get you to open your eyes and SEE what's going on here.
He doesn't like you. why would he avoid eye contact with you if he liked you? He may be gay and knows you like him and does NOT want to give you any false hope. All these other "reasons" for him to avoid eye contact with you don't make a lick of sense in the real world. Oh, also one other reason he may avoid eye contact is that he just does NOT like you at all. Sorry.
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he is trying to keep a hold on himself