Do you think my dad is pathetic?
When I was little I wasn't into sports or anything so he would make me do the cleaning and said my other siblings went to sports clubs and I did nothing. I went to art club but he didn't care. My mam used to stick up for me though. Then when I was scared of the dark when I was 8 he punched me in the side of the head and neck. He has never done this to any of my other siblings just me. Then when I was 8 he dragged me out of the bath. He used to even make me admit I was stupid, and if I said I wasn't he would wack me over the head saying I'm getting a crack for being cheeky. I'm 16 now btw. He has hit me on numerous occasions when I was young. He has never been there and a crap dad. Then he told me I should clean up he was happy doing it for me when I was young but now I'm old. And apparantly he used to love spending time with me, thinking I can't remember any of this. And the other week he tried punching me when he was drunk and my mam took everyone out of the house and made him sleep down my nanas since she was on holiday. He hasn't appologised and the only time he has spoken to me was if I wanted anything from asda. Apparantly I'm in the wrong by his expressions. And he thinks when I'm older I won't be able to afford my own house. And I said I was moving to Scotland when I'm 18 to become a resident then get free university(don't want a penny of my family). He started telling me that everyone will move uptogether. Would I be able to get him done for this when I'm 18 before I go for the move up Scotland?
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Your dad sounds like a asswipe. you shouldve called the police or somethig for all the physical abuse. And as for the "moving up together" just be like "SUCK MY ****" and be your own independent person.
Wow - this is awful. I would not want him for my Dad. I can usually find something good in anybody but I'm having trouble with this one
The only thing I can think of is if you tell him that you want a talk with him and tell him that you don't feel loved by him at all but would like to, and see what his reaction is. You might want to run it by your Mom first.
Whether or not you will be able to afford your own house is up to you, not him. Make sure that you are doing good in school so that you can get a good job after school and, once you are working, put a certain amount aside every single month towards a down paymentt for a house.
Make tomorrow the first day to really prove to him what a great person you are in every way then try to forget about what his opinion is of you and concentrate more on what your opinion of you is - do you have a favourite teacher that you can discuss this with????
Answer that yourself