Do you think this is disrespectful?
My finacee is on disablity and I take full care of him because he only gets a few hundred dollars a month on diablity . Lately my sister just moved in town and she has come to stay and help me with the children . I have caught him flirting with her and offering to go out and get things for her to eat ect . He does not do that for me in fact i can't even get him to help me with the bills and i am over worked I am upset and told him so and he says i am over reacting i don't know what i should do i feel disrespected in my home
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He's playing you, dump him now before you get too used to it. Marrying him when he is in this mindset would be a disaster for you, he wants a free ride, not a wife.
To me if there is not complete trust in a relationship. There is no relationship. Not a true one anyway. Just two people that care about one a norther. That is harder then a true relationship because the love and true partnership is not there. If your fiancee is not there for you in every way he problem is not the man for you because he is not your partner. By PARTNER i mean : beast friend, lover, the person you can anything and every thing, that puts you first. I have been marred for 13 years come June 10 2008 and i have always put my wife first and she does the same for me. So talk to him and see if that's what you have.
Best of luck in life and love
I know that this far into the relationship, it's hard to hear "get rid of him." Of course we don't know your situation except for what you write, but like the other say, you should really have a very sincere talk with him and tell him what hurts you and why it hurts you. If this is how he views marriage, then maybe you should re-evaluate marrying him OR seek couples counseling.
It sounds as though he is very disrespectful, and you deserve much better than that.
Good luck.
I think it is very disrespectful for you fiance to treat your sister better than you.
I think you need to sit down and have a serious talk with him about this.
You need to be able to feel comfortable and respected in your own home.
Hope this helped.
CCM_X3
If it makes you feel bad in your home, then yes. He should pay more attention to your feelings and respect you. Otherwise, get out.
you should get rid of him...and right now. if he is acting like this before you get married, it will only get worse after you are married. don't settle for someone who has no respect for you.
Throw him out.