emotional distress?

I think i got this from my mom's side.. but i get emotional over very very little things..

i found out my boyfriend is still talking to his ex.. i cried all day.. silly huh?

i found out my boyfriend is having late night study sessions with his ex.. im crying all night..

is there something that can help me? some mediciation? what do you recommend? i have exams this week and its heavily affecting it..

Thanks..

Comments

  • If he still has feelings for his "ex" he can't really be with you now can he? If he wants to go back to someone who has treated him poorly, that is his problem. Personally, I think he needs to work it out with her before he can give anyone else his full on attention. Ask him what he wants. Tell him you can handle it if he wants her more (I know this will be painful!) but it is better to get things out in the open rather than have him do something behind your back and then feel humiliated. It is best to keep your dignity, so let him go back. He will only get burnt again anyway, but that will be his choice. Some people are that self-destructive. Don't you be one of them. If you are able to let him go, trust that someone else better for you will come along. Believe me, that is the healthy choice.

  • Medication is not the answer, hon. I think communication is. Does he know what this behavior is doing to you? And more importantly, does he care? Sounds like he doesn't.. but sometimes guys really need things spelled out for them. Exams or no exams, your body is not going to cooperate with life if your boyfriend is doing crappy things. Let him know!

  • dump the basterd

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