How do i make my dad less protective?
I am the oldest and only girl and i have no mom and my dad is always so protective of me he got mad at me just for hanging out with this one guy for a while what should i do i dont have anyone else in the family that can help make decisions and i am in a household full of 3 boys and 1 girl!!!!!!!! HELP??????????
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Girl its hard but just be patient your time will come and you will soon have more than enough freedom....Trust! Your just Daddys little girl.....and he has to protect you!!
there is a really obvious reason why is ur dad being protective. because you are the only girl in that household. he don't want anything bad happen to you. thats why. he loves you. i know this sounds normal. but when youre older,then you'll remember all of this,when you are far away from him,you will feel and see the relevant of his word and action. he's being too protective because he still reckons that you are too young to hang out with a guy. he is too watching out for you. all that i can said that it happens when he dont fully trust you (yet) but try to gain his trust and sooner or later,he'll begun to put his trust in you and he'll be less protective.
as u grew older,things will change. i know that. i used to go thru it. but one thing that i always said to my dad; no matter how far i go,even to the world's end,i will always be ur little girl,no matter what..
bragging,am i? but thats the fact,this thing will change one day. when youre older,then u can slow talk with him. he'll listen. maybe he feels the burden to take care of a daughter,especially without a mom,so its kinda hard on him. u can help him lessen it by trying to be nice and gain his trust first. you have to be the good role model for ur little brothers.
trust me,it'll work
have a nice day
Hun, your at that age where you think everything your parents/parent is doing is unfair, but the truth is he loves you. Your father doesn't want anything to happen to you, he wants you to be safe. And, as every father of a daughter is, they are extra protective of you when you are around boys. Things will get better as you grow older, and you are going to thank him for this one day.
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well i had the same issuse
your daddy's baby daddy's angel
and he dosen't want to see you hurt
let him know that ur a big girl now
but u'll alwayz be his little girl
and that you need room to see guys
and see that they aren't all the same as
ur bro's
then come up with some agrement
no wonder. you're daddy's little girl and always will be. hang in there and he'll back off.
I agree with david i
Dad's will be dads!!!
The best way is to convince your brothers to talk to your dad, on your behalf...!
this depends on your age-if your under 17 it is understandable. you have time-if you are under 17 and you meet a nice boy then have him come to see your dad and ask to be your friend-see what happens and go from there.
this is the way to set your heart ahead of time=this is what helped me the most in true love=coming to believe in Jesus and his care for us=John 3rd chapter,
David praying for you
check out this part-it will help your heart=the truest of all love-not just to be willing to die to protect another-the Jesus who died to protect those of us that didnt even care about him, then we are guided to earthly true love.
to be your best friend
this helped me=true love-help from above
=Revelation 1:1 chapter 1 verse 1 and chapter 3:19&20 I love you and knock on your heart door to come in deliver from sin and be your friend, when you ask me in." Jesus words =think of the future too
when its real and in honor-in friendship & for marriage for the future and living in honor till then. "In marriage the bed is undefiled, but the others will be judged." Hebrews 13 in that chapter is also the promise once we let Jesus into our heart "I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee." verse 5
this is what got me self control=I have had the best of everything in life (I thought) till I came to Jesus and learned the joy of life, in salvation and renewal, praying for you, -and I am just a messenger in Jesus amazing grace (John 3rd chapter) repented of my sins, even one lie and let Jesus in to help and be my friend- princess. it sure worked for me, =Jesus is the one to comfort you and to give you help to commit in a relationship, in Jesus amazing grace, John 3rd chapter repented of my sins,even one lie, and let Jesus in to be my friend=
"Jesus help me, thanks that you love me, I am sorry for my sins, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."
praying all goes well for you too, David