pregnant && no baby daddy?
i met this guy through a friend, we started talking then shortly after that we started going out. everything was great, he was sooooo good to me and made me feel amazing. 3 months later **** started changing. we broke up about a month ago. this morning i was thinking and realized i havent had my period in a while and i was 8 days late. so i took 2 pregnancy tests n they both were positive. not to mention my boobs have gotten full && tender && sore. so i told my ex that i was prego n he told me that he doesnt want anything to do with me or the baby. he said that he was gunna go leave town so i cant find him n that its not our baby its mine. i dont know what to do, i cant raise a baby on my own. is he really allowed to jus go n abandon me and our child?? i didnt even mention that hes 23 n im 16, and about that would he go to jail??...cus thats what he kept saying. but im maryland 16 is the age of consent so he wouldnt go to jail right??
Update:if i put him on child support i know he wudnt pay cus hes stubborn. he already has a daughter thats 4 n hes never payed child support for her.
MARY- ***** im not stupid **** jus happens. ur ****** immature to sit n judge people you dont know online at 2 30 in the morning. thats not what this website is for. get a life.
thanks for the advise guys.
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If he's in jail you'd get NO support from him!!! It's just common sense! But he DOES have an obligation to support you and your child!!! And like someone else said the county WILL find him!!!!
In the mean time there are county programs you can get on for help with support and HE will have to pay them back when they find him!!!
If you feel there is no way you can raise the baby without the dad... and you don't have family or friends support there is always adoption! You can do open adoption so you know the child growing up and you can pick a very nice family for the baby!!! There are so many good people out there that are unable to have children that would be so blessed to have you and your child in their lives!!!!
Talk to your parents and have him turned into the police. You have to put your feelings for him aside I know it's hard but you have to do what is best for you and your child. He will have to pay you child support! Make sure you get all you can from him because he should have known better than to sleep with you if he know he wasn't ready to be a parent or a man. Take action and be strong! Get yours don't let him off easy!
i dont know about the age of consent there but hell iw ould send him to jail im just spitefully like that i mean he just said he was going to leave me and the baby so how bout he leaves and goes to jail but the thing u could do also is just put him on child support do u know his first and last name a family member something?? when the baby is born e could get served ya would have to go to court get a paternity test and all that but it will all be worth it i know its more than just the money u want him to be there for the baby but u cant force a man to do that but u sure could force him to pay trust me im kinda going through the same thing my baby's father ain't crap and im going through this pregnancy by myself we are both adults and im very much capable of taking care of a child but i shouldn't have to but like i said u cant force a man to be a father but Irma force his *** to pay up the sad part is that we try to take the good road but men just dont wanna cooraporate
I don't know about the law on that part about going to jail, but I can tell you this. . . you can "stick" him for child support through the court system and trust me. . . THEY WILL FIND HIM!
Talk to your parents about this. They might be mad, but they would be better off helping you in this situation.
Good luck!
He would go to jail; the age of consent doesn't cover statutory rape, which is an adult having sex with someone below the age of 18
Him having sex with you is legally considered rape, if you were to tell the police, odds are that he would go to jail and have to support you and the baby
He has to pay child support. If he does not, first he with lose his license, then will have to go to court, and possibly to jail. This should help you. http://www.peoples-law.org/family/divorce/child%20...
Your stupid seriously