How do brake up with a dude (nicely).?
I am going out with a type of guy that i would not normally go out with .... But i couldn't bring it to my self to say no when he asked me so i said yes!
Now i feel bad because i have been with him for 1 month to give him a chance, but i am sick of him! How do i tell him nicely that it is over......???? ( With out him complety bracking down on the spot)
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just don't blurt it out. If he is a SUPER SENSITIVE and emotional guy, then you might not be able to help him from breaking down. If he does, apologize and tell him that he will meet the perfect girl one day and this break up was all part of the pathway towards meeting the perfect girl.
In order to actually get around to doing it do not reflect on the good times you two had, that makes it harder. Just go out for coffee or something where it is just the two of you and tell him something along the lines of "So, I was thinking about us, and I decided that we are not meant for each other. We are just too______________(fill in the blank)" You may want to say something like "we are just too different for each other, we have totally different interests and I want to be with someone who I just feel completely connected with, and I think that it would be better off if we see other people who are more of a perfect fit for us." or something along those lines. Just be soft and gentle with it. Don't fight and break up, just peacefully bring it up while you two are in a place where you two can talk without any interuption. I hope this helps :].
Well it's simple just stop hanging out with him....When he calls you,pick up the phone and tell him tht ur busy.....and then after a week or so start praising some other guy in front of him and start hanging out with some other guy..Tht would give him a message tht ur no more interested in him!! For more tips Join Flame Squad!!!! http://in.groups.yahoo.com/group/flamesquad/
better doing it sooner than later or it will make it harder to break up with him but i would just tell the truth that you really dont want a boyfriend and that he is a really nice guy and you would love stay friends with him. maybe next time dont say yes to people you are already unsure about. he will probably break down no matter how nice you are to him about it because he likes you!!!
Start being a *****. Make HIM break up with YOU. Believe me, there are some fast ways to do that. A wise man once said: "You scare away more flies with insect repellent, than with Lysol."
Have your hottest friend hit on him when nobody is around and if he takes the bait he will to be blamed for the break-up.
If you don't like that one just be honest. Time heals all wounds.
No way to avoid the pain. Just rip the band-aid off quickly and move on. He'll live.
talk to him and tell him that u dont like him in the way that it used to be.tell him that u wnat to end ur relstionship with him because you think that its not gonna work out no more since u feel nothing to him..
if he really loves you then hes gonna let you go and hes gonna respect youre decision..
I really enjoyed my time with you, but i feel like i am not getting enough out of this relationship. We both deserve to be completely happy, and i dont think either of us are.
whoa, i totally surprised myself with writing that
i have been watching too much days of our lives...
I had the same problem. It's ok i know how you feel. Just explain to him that you don't think that this realationship is somthing you want to continue. Just say the famous line its not you, its me. It works.. My x is still not over me but at least hes off my back lol. jk. lol. but he knows its over. GOOD LUCK!!! hope i helped u..
It's break.
Go I'm really sorry but i don't think i can go out with you anymore.
make an excuse that your family's having a real had time and you can't spend that time with him?