how do shy people (especially guys) date?
Im a very shy guy. I have one really close friend that ive had my whole life and that is pretty much it. But ive been able to open up a little bit to the people that i work with and i dont feel much anxiety around them anymore. there is this one girl ive been talking to for about 9 months and we both really like eachother, i think im in love with her. but i can usually talk to her about everything all the time but sometimes i just get in the mood where i dont feel like saying much and she gets annoyed and asks why im so quiet and stuff. i want to date her so bad because she broke up with her boyfriend because she wanted to be with me but i dont know how to be exciting like i feel like im a dull person because of my shyness (shes very outgoing.) anyone else really shy or dating someone really shy how do you deal with it/advice. im 19 btw thanks
Update:she knows how i feel about her and everything and she says she could marry me but like i feel like she might get tired of me quick
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Have you tried to flirt with her. flirting help you step out of your comfort zone because if you can flirt it makes things easier. and try asking her out. because after you are dating it gets easier because you get use to being around that person. I would warn her first though that way she can help you out and help make you feel better about it.
I'm shy as well. Sometimes, because of my shyness, people get the wrong impression that I'm snobbish. I have a bf, he is different from me. He is the one who talks a lot. It took some time before I was able to talk to him, and it took a lot of guts from me to tell him that I like him.
I know its difficult for you, but take chances. You should ask her out now before someone else does.
Yopu can kiss him , yet he might anticipate that any further. i'm guessing he remebers he kissed you and because you havent initiated a kiss returned he might experience you disapproved of it originaly. to no longer be a jerk yet he sounds loserish - come across a guiy no longer afraid to make a pass, or practice this guy to be extra effective.
step out of your Comfort zone a bit you'll feel alot better, just go for it ask her out and see where it goes,
they grow a pair