Do you dance as a stripper?
do you enjoy teasing a man or you just dance because of the money?
if you like a guy, do you ever give him a helping hand without him asking for it?
Do you encourage him to pop one to enjoy your dancing?
do you enjoy teasing a man or you just dance because of the money?
if you like a guy, do you ever give him a helping hand without him asking for it?
Do you encourage him to pop one to enjoy your dancing?
Comments
No
Oh, boy. O.K...we can handle this one of two ways. I can tell you the truth about exotic dancers or I can charge you $4.99 per minute to lie to you. I worked as a dancer...erm, "stripper" for 11 years before I got my B.A. and got out of the business. I have personally talked with hundreds of strippers. Here's the real deal.
1. It's fun to entertain and be the center of attention and most strippers like that part of the job. They enjoy the music, the costumes, being on stage, etc. for the most part. Hanging out with the folks at the club can be really fun, too.
2. When a woman dances for her own man, whether or not she is a professional stripper, of course she enjoys it. However, don't confuse professional stripping with a woman dancing for her partner in private. When I was stripping, I danced for my then-boyfriend (now husband) in private and it was sexual for me. It was NEVER sexual when I was at work. In the history of stripping, there has NEVER been a woman who did the job because it was a sexual turn on for her. IT'S A JOB. Is it fun? Sure, some times. Some times it's limb-gnawing boredom and some times it's freakishly annoying when some fuzzy-toothed mouth breather keeps saying, "does it turn ya on, baby?" It's like asking a waitress if she does the job because she loves food or "is it just for the money?" Do YOU do your job for the money? I think you do.
3. Do you honestly believe I'm going to feed your little fantasy by answering your last question? Professional strippers would NEVER tolerate that sort of behavior in a club, and would have the man permanently barred from the facility if he tried it. Further, if a stripper in a club did do such a thing, she would be fired. Immediately.
Look, men who go to strip bars are paying for a fantasy, and that's what the women who work there provide. Of course a lot of us genuinely like men. But the act of stripping every day is the same for a stripper as going to the office is for you. You can certainly like your job, but the idea of someone doing their job for a reason other than the pay check is well...rather dumb.
These women have lives. They strip because they are working on their degrees or they are supporting children or they're paying for their mother's surgery. Seriously. Most of them are in committed relationships, and about half are legally married. They work each day or evening, go home, stop at the store for bread, make spaghetti, play with the baby, do their homework, and make real love with their boyfriend, girlfriend, or husband. Why is that so hard to grock?
On Tuesday afternoons, I like to dress up as a bunny and reenact this dance;
http://i51.tinypic.com/2s00axg.jpg
Yeah.
Just like that.
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