I have a serious problem...{PICTURES INSIDE!}?
I always have this problem.
I am never satisfied with ME as a person.
I become obsesive with pretty people and try SOOO hard to look exactly like them although i know i never will .. and i want confidence so badly. :{ im not perfect and i hate myself..
look.
here are a few pictures of me-{below}
http://i17.tinypic.com/643wub5.jpg
http://i10.tinypic.com/6cgtphd.jpg
and here are the people i want to look like-{below}
http://i16.tinypic.com/6hi7z9i.jpg
and her...
http://i17.tinypic.com/68htgg3.jpg
and so many more people...
IM NOT POSTING THIS SO EVERYONE SAYS
"oh you're pretty, blah blah blah"
so dont acuse me of trying to get pitty.
i just need more confidence and i need help to stop trying to look like everyone im NOT
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i rhink u are VERY pretty and i love a girl in a LA hat
the second girl kinda looks like a horse im sorry but its true like her teeth are sticking out or something
dont look at how perfect other girls might seem they really arent nobody is
look how pretty u look in those pictures and your not even wearing make up and the other girls are! U dont need make up to look pretty and those girls do since theyre wearing it
just look at the positive sides of u wat u do if u play sports if ur in band stuff like that
personally i would date u instead of those other girls any day!
"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" how cliche` right? But it's very true. You're only as beautiful as you say you are. I understand that confidence is one of the things you lack right now, and that's good that you recognize what you really need to work on. Rather than focusing too much on the outside and constantly trying to change your appearance to be "just as pretty" as the other girls, focus more on the inside and decide on what you need to do build your self confidence. Our society has become way too obsessed with the concept of beauty, but keep in mind that what people view as "beautiful" changes over time. For example, today, being stick thin like some models is considered beautiful but before, models such as Marilyn Monroe (who would have been considered fat today) was considered beautiful. Constantly trying to change who you are on the outside to keep up with what others see as true beauty can only harm you in the long run. Judging from your pictures, I think you're a pretty girl. Building your self confidence doesn't happen overnight. One way to begin, however, is to start by focusing on the positives rather than on the negatives. Rather than pointing out all the things you don't have or like about yourself, think about the things you DO have and are grateful for. Love yourself. Nobody's perfect.
The pictures you posted were of girls with dark hair. Maybe you would feel better about yourself with darker hair? Everyone wishes they looked different sometimes. I used to wish I was taller and heavier. Now that I'm older and have had 2 kids . I realize how lucky I am to be pettite and look much younger than I am. I used to hate looking young, now I'm loving it! Just try to focus on the positive about yourself, and enhance what you have without concentrating on what others have or you don't have.
I think you are gorgeous. Here's something that I found works.
Go in front of your long mirror and close your eyes. Picture the ugliest human being possible and look at it for a sec. Then open your eyes and you appreciate how pretty you are.
Then you can also imagine being someone else. Like "being in someone else's shoes". Pretend you're one of your friends and actually believe it and open your eyes.
This worked for me and I'm sorry if it doesn't really make sense...
Hope I helped.
Well, i think you are pretty even though i know thats not the answer you want.
Ypu just have to find the good things about you, the things you like and focus on that. Say to yourself your pretty, fake the confidence & soon, it'll become real.
I think you already are pretty.
To be honest, those girls that you want to look like are pretty as well but the thing is, they don't stand out that much to me. Everyone has different tastes so don't be hard on yourself!
I really don't know what you're talking about. You look very pretty to me. But if you really have problems with yourself then it's okay to try looking different. I noticed both the girls you want to look like have brown hair... why not try to dye your hair?
that's easy,just be yourself.who cares what everyone else thinks.people who look like that have lots of problems in there life.people don't want you near there boyfriends and girls hate you cause they want to look like that.it is a good think to be pretty or just attractive enough instead of gorgeous.your pretty so you don't even have to worry.just be yourself ,find your own personal style and play with it.
you look like an attractive blonde girl to me. theres really nothing wrong with the way you look.
my words of wisdom are: if you want to aspire to look like a person, then do yourself a favor and dont choose a black lady, you're NEVER going to look like that! lol
Find a new idol to try to look like. THose girls just uuuggggg............... i saw in a magazine a girl thought she was like soo ugly soo it like drove her insane or w.e..im not saying ur ugly,,, but maybe u hae that people that girl did, and she wasnt ugly, she was jsut really just really crazy