HUGE problem.. help pleasee!!?
i just turned 15 and me and some of my friends went out to dinner for it on saturdayy... one of my good friends (justin) .. i really love him.. since kindergarten.. out parents are great friends, we've been great friends, we've been neighbors since we were born, and he liked me in elementary school.. i told him i liked him in 7th grade, and it made it a little weirder, but it was still cool... now, we were getting along better than EVER. he did all little cute things, showing signs he likes me, but still not enough so make it sure... he hugged me and gave me a kiss on the cheek when he left, so at like 11:30 when everyone left, i texted my friend and said "omg i can't stop smiling i love him more then i've ever loved someone" and by accident, i sent it to him!!!! (JUSTIN!)... he replied "wtf who is this".. and i said "what? it's lauren (me)".. pretending i didn't know what he was talking about, and later i told this story saying my friends were joking & accidentally did it and we..
Update:must've not had service and they thought u wouldn't get it (with their permission).. he didn't reply anything back.. i told him i hope it's not weird and i'm sorry.. he said nothing.. i haven't talked to him since, and it's all i think about. Please help me!!! should we hang out? or no? i don't know what to do!! should i text him, make the first move?? idk what to do! i bet he still thinks i wrote it... and thinks went from being the best to the worst! please help! thank you so much. sry it's long!
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Work on getting him to friends first.
What is sounds like is he is in shock, and don't know how to act. take the lead, let him know your still the same person, and that you cherish him being friends.
No its not long..YES you chould make the first move!!!Text him back something...The only way you can find out if he likes you is if you ask him...If you don't then you will be stuck with it in your mind..If he's interested then GREAT if not then so it be but don't beat yourself over what he says...You should ask him if he wants to hang and stuff...But you must be prepared to face the consequences of what he says so you don't feel embarrassed Go ahead make the first move...Maybe later in ur relationship you'll be laughin about thhe text message
oh man, teenage drama....how i do not miss it. honestly if you like his so much you need to tell him rather than letting it wallow up inside you. i didn't tell the person that i was crushing on in high school and it ended up being too late. they even got engaged! so you need to let him know how you feel before it gets too late, epically since things are going so well between you too right now. even if he says he doesn't feel the same way back, its better then thinking "what if" all the time.
Act as if nothing happen, if you dnt want him to know it was you- then dont make it obvious. And you shouldnt make the 1st move until you knw 4sure he like u the same way!
He's probably just freaked out for now, hopefully time will change this. Just give him space and don't act like it's a big deal - act normally. He'll get over it.
we..what?
well anyway. i get the point. well wait a little longer and see if he does anything that shows interest in you, and if he doesnt, then just make the first move and tell him how you feel. it doesnt hurt to take some riskss.
i think that you should talk to him asap...you need to solve these problems before things get worse...but avoid texting...its not as effective
tell him like him... if he dont like u then whatever.. find a different guy...