Depressed over a guy!!?
I know i'm being stupid but why do i have to care so much about someone who is already taken?
We are best mates but recently I've developed really strong feelings for him and he knows this! He says he has feelings for me too and we have kissed a few times! ( I feel awful abt it now cos i never thought I'd be "that" girl!)
I just feel so mixed up at the moment. I know he has a gf and its never gonna go anywhere between us but i just can't help the way I feel!!
It's really beginning to get me down!!
Help!!
Update:I don't really know his gf because she lives in another part of the country! He only gets to see her 2 days a week!
Comments
First of all and most important......guys and girls cannot be "best mates." There is ALWAYS an attraction there...either with the girl or the guy. Even if it's not spoken.
Second, we always want what we can't have.
You have to let him go and don't get involved with a guy who already has a gf.
Hey I know how you feel.
I Like this guy in my class, and we've known each other for years.
You Can't ever help the way you feel over a guy.
Its just life I Guess.
I mean if you guys have kissed then you know you'll have your chance.
Just give him sometime to think about what hes going through.
You think about it to.
It Might Help.
Lilly<3
talk to him thats the only way u can get it out. hate to say it babi girl but ur on your own. I hope sumthing does happen between you two. u never know. just keep your head up and dont let a guy ruin ur day. if he really really really cared about u dont u think he wood leave that girl for you? i dont its just a question
well i think that u should talk 2 him and his gf about it if she catches u w/ him bhind her back every1 will hate u but if ur upfrount w/ her then she might thank u and after they break up then u can try 2 go out with him trust me i did the same thing and ive been goin out with her 4 like 2 years now and the other guy is now my bestfriend
Patience, its tough but if the feelings are strong enough in both directions it will happen. Maintain your dignity, dont settle into being the girl on the side. make him choose, you may or may not like the answer but you'll feel much better about yourself later on..
In the immortal words of Dear Abby..or whoever...he's taken but flattered. This is why the "that" girl syndrome exists...no guy will EVER say no. Please, please, do yourself a favor and through everything you have into being social and meeting new people. As long as you obsess...the obsession will grow...don't feed it. Spare yourself, luv.
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hey y r going crazy bout him
i kinow i m in india but y dont u try me
wat6 is special in kiss
u can give chance to someone else
If he likes you that much he'll dump his gf
make him choose between you or her
if he chooses her, then u move on.........theres better guys out there...