I think I'm a crossdresser?
Sometimes when my mom is gone, I put on some of her clothes and makeup and stuff and it REALLY turns me on... Can anyone help? (If it helps, I know that i am straight.)
Sorry if this is in the wrong section... I'm new to YA
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No big deal, just keep it under control.
You know about 50% of males would rather die than feminize themselves. Then about 40% of men will cross-dress at some point in their lives, but just for laughs. They really don't feel anything special from it. Then that leaves about 10% of males who, like you, really love it.
You have a cross-dressing fetish. Your brain is hard-wired to release dopamine and other neurotransmitters when you feminize yourself. Its as if your brain interprets cross-dressing for actual contact with a female. These neurotransmitters produce sensations of well-being, pleasure, sexual gratification and self-identity. They affect the reward centers of your brain, and thus mimic the addiction response. You cannot stop your brain from releasing these neurotransmitters so you feel as if you need to cross-dress.
Now most guys with this condition consider it a problem. They are heterosexuals and they want to have a girlfriend and get married some day. This cross-dressing thing makes them feel shame and guilt and they would just die if they get caught. So they limit their cross-dressing and keep it private, very private. That's cool. Remember this mimics the addiction response, so you have to control it, or it will control you.
You just need to set your own limits and live within them. Your body craves the gratification sensations from the neurotransmitters so your body is using cross-dressing as the tool to make your brain release them. In order to keep the neurotransmitters levels high you will need to keep pushing more and more and more cross-dressing. You need to resist the temptation to go further and further into this fetish. You can limit it and still feel nice and happy.
What you need to be doing is working on your social skills. (Fetishes work the wrong way. Fetishes use objects as a substitute for human intimacy.) Guys your age are supposed to work very very hard at developing their social skills. Learn how to socialize, make conversation, learn to dance, learn how to tell jokes. Learn how to talk about other people's interests. Learn how to compliment others. Date girls who never, ever get asked out on dates just to develop your social skills. Tell girls that you think they are wonderful, and just leave it at that. You need to make yourself a social and popular person. Avoid time alone. Girls will love you and your fetish will not be so important to you.
i've got date fairly some females in my skirts, hose and heels and NONE of them complained. in actuality, all of them knew up front who i replaced into and what i replaced into approximately. Crossdressing for me isn't a sexual element, even though this is extra like a fetish appropriate. i don't frequently do it interior the mattress room, this is in basic terms for convenience, seem and experience...
I think u r a cross dresser. When i was in my teen years and when no one was home i would put my sisters clothes and make-up on and it turn me on. It is just a fetish. I still cross dress today i have a girlfriend (no i am not gay)
Sweetie, Im 12 now and in 2nd-3rd slightly the start of 4th (before my boob spurt happened) I crossdressed as a guy....and passed
OH how lovely! and did you make sure to powder your Muffy Wuffy?
You're a transvestite.
That's different from a mere crossdresser.
Transvestites get sexual stimulation from what they wear.
What sex are you? It will help in order to describe things for you.