To Cancers from a Capricorn.?
Well I'm very confused by Cancers. I love them to death, I understand them and then I DON'T understand them. I have this Cancer friend who I've known for 3 years. We are/were best friends but we also took a higher liking to each other. We both wanted a relationship- just at different times. The Cancer pushed me 1st and I said no. Then I pushed the Cancer and they said no. So we made a bond/friendship and that's how we've been. Till one day the Cancer up and left for a relationship. They kept me around kinda sorta. We became friends again and then I wanted a relationship with them- but I was not going to put them through my Capricorn emotions again. So I said I was leaving (the friendship) because I know they can't/will not communicate with me and help out feelings that are so strong for them. I just don't know how to read a Cancer's deep emotion. When I should act and when I should stop pushing. I push my Cancer way to much and I feel they don't push me enough.
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Capricorn and Cancer
Your Cancer sweetheart is born six months away from your birthday, so he or she will be either complementary to your personality or diametrically opposed to everything you value. In short, this pairing will bring you either perfection or pandemonium. The final outcome will be up to you.
Let's look at the pros and cons. Your sign rules the fame and honors house of the horoscope; thus, you are very ambitious and hope to achieve a responsible leadership position. You do very well in big organizations and politics, things others would have difficulty accomplishing. You understand chain of command, and you like orderly hierarchies because everyone in them knows what is expected. Your sign is an earth sign and therefore very practical.
Enter Cancer, an emotional water sign very different from your own. Cancer's natural domain is the home and family. While they work hard at their jobs, they are not willing to put in the single-minded effort that you do. This could be a lovely match, however, because a Cancer will nurture you and your children and provide the kind of life you dream about but have no idea how you are going to fit it into your schedule. We won't call your work habits your lifestyle -- for Capricorn, there usually isn't much time left life outside of work!
The problems that surface between you two could relate to the time you spend away from home. Cancer cannot fathom why you find work so interesting, and if he or she becomes upset, your Cancer will get sulky and moody. You, on the other hand, consider the Cancer focus on home and family a bit obsessive, and you think they spend too much time there. If you are dating a divorced Cancer with children, this can be especially true, for they will talk about the kids nonstop and may make plans to spend time with them that make you feel left out.
Capricorns are family-oriented too, and you will willingly visit your in-laws now and then, for you see benefit in upholding tradition and are interested in family lineage. You especially like talking with old-timers about life when they were young. Hearing history first-hand is exciting to you -- you could become the family biographer. Cancer would help you here, maybe by assisting you as you try to find old family photographs.
You are more practical than your partner and have talents for finance. But your Cancer is no spendthrift; they save money, bargain-hunt, and treat their income wisely. This is a good area of common ground.
Cancers are more emotional than you and may find your detached, earthy nature a bit too cool. Cancers like frequent displays of affection. When it comes to sex, however, you are both sensitive. In fact, it is hard to match the lovely emotional warmth of a Cancer. Cancers want to see fireworks when they make love, so woe unto you if you wear your wristwatch. They want your complete attention, and rightly so! Your Cancer will love you with an intensity that will thrill you. I suppose some Capricorns may find this kind of love smothering, but they are in the minority.
My bet is this relationship will be a strong and healthy one, where each of you gives exactly what the other lacks.
Why do people say that it's not a good match based on capricorns personality?! I'm a cap female and are together with a cancer guy and he is the most romantic man ever! Capricorns gets comfortable with water signs and we open up really fast. Showing our emotions and our crazy side, because we do have one lol I have been with my cancer boyfriend for three months and we're best best friends. We trust each other blind and he always say I have a huge passion and wild fantasy. The weirdest thing is that there is nothing I don't like about him. He can copy me a bit to much sometimes but I don't really mind and he basically we never argue. We always try new things (also in sex) and we're both really open minded. This is for me the best combination and I have had boyfriends of each sign except Scorpio and pisces. I'm in love head over heels over my fantastic boyfriend and he is not so clingy neither. I don't hide any emotions from him and I always speak the truth. 4/5. Nothing is perfect lol
Relationships weren't meant to be a battlefield or compromise. If it takes that much work to keep it together then maybe you are wasting your time. Connections with mind, body, and soul should feel right without contention.
A perfect fit is a perfect fit, square peg in a square hole. There are so many others to choose from, pick someone that completes your thoughts, pick someone that you can't possibly live without, pick someone that fits you. Don't force what doesn't fit.
I have the same problem , I have a Cancer friend and sometimes she is my best friends and sometimes we want to kill each other!I'm really confused they are so wired and change every hour.
But the intresting thing is that my bday is on Jan 19 and her bday is on July 19...
Cancers don't like to be pushed and they expect you to read their mind. If you're patient, the Cancer will reward you with great friendship.
cancers are not pushy people if it's no then it's no we move on , yet we will feel the hurt inside but we will eventually let it go.
I wouldn't put too much stock into the credibility of horoscopes/astrology.
What you're describing can happen to anybody, regardless of their zodiac sign. My advice is to recognize the situation for what it is, and deal with it like a mature adult.
just be together. if you to love each other as friends and you both what to be together, just be together and if it dose to work out. you could still be friends.