how do i stop my paranoia?
omg someone please help me. i dont live with my boyfriend but i get extremely paranoid about him seeing other girls. hes cheated before but he isnt like what he used to be. (so he says) but hes told me not to get paranoid, im the only one for him, he loves me so much and hem misses me, and hes always tellin me that he doesnt want anybody else. anyway.. my paranoia has just been made worse.. his ex asked him back out the other day but he rejected her (nobody knows were going out, its complicated) but it still gets me thinking but he has told me a million times that he doesnt want anybody else. please someone help me to stop my paranoia plss im going mad!!!
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Actions speak louder than words. What does he say with his actions? There must be a reason you are paranoid. Trust is everything in a relationship, it sounds like he's broken your trust in him.
Unless you're planning to spend the rest of your life with this guy, who cares?
Your instincts are telling you he's not trustworthy, so go with your gut. If he's making you feel that insecure about the relationship, you're not going to have much fun on the nights you're apart. You'll just be worrying about him nonstop.
Go out with someone you don't have to worry about.
Get some counseling. This is a sign of an insecure ego.
he's probably the only one that can do anything about it
if he was that devoted to you, you'd think he'd tell you how much he loved you more, not saying he doesn't, but if he did, I would think that you wouldn't feel this way
just make sure he knows how much you're bugged by this
once a cheater always a cheater. now that's just generalizing everything which i don't like to do. so put it this way there is a large percentage he will cheat on you again
if he cheated on you once he will do it again sooner or later it will happened and the truth will come out sooner or later
HE'S A LIER! AND WILL ALWAYZ BE A CHEATER I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM DONT BIELIEVE HIS LIES MA TRUST ME