OK to do to a Co-Worker?
An assistant at the hair salon I work at has a huge crush on me and all of the other hairdressers think it’s funny that he will bend over backwards to help me with whatever I need. He is a nice boy but 12 years younger so it’s not like I am in to him. He told me I could use him as a test dummy on some hair styles and beauty treatments for practice. All of the other girls think it would be funny if I waxed his eyebrows into a thin line or colored his hair red. Do you think this would be to mean as a practical joke, it’s a very laid back salon and I think he could handle the razzing he would get from it. Plus it’s not like any of this is permanent. Let me know your thoughts.
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He has some sort of Mommy fetish and would enjoy being punished and humiliated by a woman in authority. I think you should do it! Really, he's just asking for it. Of course, you should tell him first, "I'm gonna shave your head" or whatever just to get his consent. Always get their consent first.
This is so cold and horrible that I think you must be kidding.
Please be kind and sensitive to this boy. Making light of another persons feelings is not O.K.
People commit suicide over situations just like this and you don't want that on your conscience.
How would you feel if someone did the same thing to you? Treat others as you would like to be treated. He's kind to you, be kind to him.
You want to play a cruel joke on someone that's nice to you? You could use some therapy and I mean that in the nicest possible way.
No don't do that. It would be mean spirited. He has a crush and would let you do these things but he wouldn't realize he is being humiliated. Treat him nicely....think about how you would feel if someone you had a crush on treated you like that.
Absolutely NOT. If you use him for a practical joke then you really show yourself in your true colours. Think what it will do to his self esteem. Take into consideration his younger age, it could be very hard on him. SHAME ON YOU!!!!!
I would remind you of the Golden Rule, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" then let your conscience guide you. Would you get pleasure from causing him frustration and embarrassment? Of course the others think it would be funny since it wouldn't be happening to them.
When your purposely trying to make someone look like a freak it's wrong. I'm sure this wasn't what he had in mind.
I think it would be unprofessional and show you personally as a jerk.
cruel--you know he's crushin' on you and you want to abuse him....so not nice.