Is this fair? Do I deserve this?
Hey everyone 
so i was wondering if you all felt this situation is fair or not. My parents are pretty introverted people and dont have many friends. They do have one close named Susan and recently AFTER they asked multiple times, I admitted I dont like parts of her personality. I think she only sees people in one way and is very judgmental. They reacted okay but now a few weeks later are saying when she visits I am not allowed out of my room and i cant sign her or her daughters birthday card. The way my mom says things really hurts my feelings the way she says things and i regret saying anything. Is that fair? Do i deserve that by not being supportive of her friend? What should I do? Thanks
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Your parents sound exceptionally obsessed with how other people see them, especially to just throw away the opinions of their own children. Of course, every person will have opinions of people, and they won't always match, for your parents not to see this is pretty naive to be honest. If they really don't have many friends, and this person is one of a few, then perhaps see if you can get along. If not then simply have faith in what you believe and your opinions of other people and go on with your life, you don't need to like all your parents' friends, just like they don't need to like all yours.
This dramatic response to your views to a friend of your mums, which you were asked for, is a rather over the top, so to speak. They obviously like the friend and don't want you making waves to disrupt it. If it was me I'd let them get on with it and I would probably be out when she come to the house too. Best of luck.
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They seem to be overreacting... Unless their side of it is different but I'd say talk to them and explain you may not like her but you won't be rude and you want to be involved in their restricted social life
Yes, it is fair; yes, you do deserve this.
There: feel better?
maybe it depends on how u feel