Do I not contact my ex?

We've been friends for six years and dated for a year and a half, I know that doesn't seem long to many people but it was the longest relationship both of us had ever had. We sort of broke up on accident (I suggested a break from talking when we were both stressed and he took that as a break up) and the thing is we've been talking every day since and it's like nothing's changed. We still make each other laugh and let each other vent but we're just not together and it's bothering me.

I've been told it's not a good idea to talk within the first two weeks or something but would it be bad to ignore him if he's already talking to me? I don't want to seem mean by randomly dropping contact or anything but I miss him a lot and it's really starting to effect other areas of my life. Suggestions?

Comments

  • Your love for him is still there isnt it ?? Carnt help that... You two have become close and you carnt suddenly hide that..... He might seem cold or like he doesnt care but when it comes to men they dont really like talking emotions at all. Make sure you tell him straight up how you feel and dont be afraid of texting him or calling you have known him for 6 years... Now you have broke up it may seem a bit weird but thats because you both deep down think that it was a bad idea to brake up... Message over all is stay in contact still talk even if your not together as couple

  • You two should discuss this face to face. If he is still talking to you, then it's a sign that he is not ready to let go. If you're ready, the no contact rule would be suggestively the best option. But, do you really want to ignore him? That's your decision. If you want to be with him, discuss it and let him know that it is bothering you. Best of luck

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