Japanese guy is a player?
So I started talking to a jap guy via Facebook chat, and we got along fine, thought he was quite forward and aggressive and thou I am European I was raised more Old fashioned way eg take it sow,be picky,guys always pay. So I am quite old fashioned even thought I am in my later teens (17) and he is in his 20s so he seems to act more aggressive possibly because he thinks most white girls are slutty? Anyways after talking to me for only a few days, he starts saying how kind I am and that he wants to meet me (in Aus here it's legal have a sexual relationship with an adult if ur 16+),and I agreed to meet him in a busy area after getting to know him for atleast one more week, everything was going well until he started asking for nude pics and then I got very hurt and I said that I am not that kind of person, he apologized and said that he had the wrong idea of Aus women after I explained that I am from a different background and he agreed to let me make all the decisions of what I want to do or not to do,I really like him but him demanding nude pics really hurt me and he keeps mentioning that he's a host as if to impress me even thought I don't care, it kinda irritates me but I like him when he's being normal and not perverted,what should I do?
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He is a player. Guys that are not players won't be so aggressive and ask for nude pics. My advice is to stay away from him. I'm betting that you are not the only woman he has done this too.
I get the idea that ever since the first time you two 'met', he has had this kind of imagination about you being an easy girl to get ->..said that he had the wrong idea of Aus women"
And really, it's not decent to ask for nude pictures of a girl that you just began talking with, nevertheless, you guys haven't met face to face yet. I think that he is being too straightforward with those embarrassing things, and can do it as if it was nothing..? And he is a host, and already doesn't hide his experience with girls. If you are not very experienced with guys/wanna take things slow/and doesn't like his perverted side/and already got hurt at this stage, then you should probably think about letting go of him. To me, he is obviously a player - Sorry!
This guy does not want a relationship, hon - at least, not the kind of "old-fashioned" relationship that you claim to want. Just because he realizes he almost blew it by pushing too far and has backed off doesn't mean that he's going to want to "take it slow" if you do end up meeting him in person. Find a new chat buddy. Maybe even one who's local.
well I'm a man and I will tell you what I will do if I'm just playing with you
I would ask you the same thing
but if I really care about you then I will think twice before I would ask you such a thing.
if he asks you again then you should leave him for good
you deserve respect nothing less
good luck
He's cute and not too feminine. Oh I remember Takeru Kobayashi now that you mentioned his name, he is adorable.
hes a cheap guy
player get the hell out now.