My step dad is creepy?
Ok so when i was 6 my mom married my step dad, i never liked him and i remember when i was 10 or so maybe a bit younger when hed come in to say goodnite, hed lay on top of me, like completly and at time i thought he was playing and id complain of him squishing me, but he would never smile or say anything, hed just lay on me for like 30 seconds say goodnite and leave. Then when i was 16 (im 19 now and moved out) i was in my room changing and all i had on was a bra and jeans, he knocked AS he was opening the door and i had time to say im changing 3 times in a row and he still opened the door and i ran accross the room to hide in my closet and after he couldnt see me he shut the door and left, later he said some joke about knocking on doors and commented "i like seeing u run across the room in ur bra". Then not to long later it was a hot day and i wore shorts and he looked me up and down and said "what are you teasing me?" Rite infront of my mom who didnt even care. Im worried hes done worse things when im sleeping idk what to think or do or not do, any ideas? Or comments?
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Talk to your mom about him. Tell her you never wanted him in your life and you're worried what he did in his past. Girl, I feel so bad for you. That's good that you moved out as soon as you can. If by any chance he knows where you live, make sure when and if he wants to or tries to visit, you DO NOT answer the door.
If he's with your mom and visiting you, let them in but (if I were you) don't talk to him or look at him at all. If he gets close to you, walk away, go to the bathroom or something. You can also tell him "Stay away or I'll call the cops" Just think of any way to keep him away forever now, you're a young adult and old creepy men like him have a better chance of raping you that way.
Do the same things if YOU visit THEM. This freaking guy is class B pedophile (Class A is worst, Class D is least) where the new replacement/douchebag dad wants to meet the children, finds out only child's a female, then he doesn't actually want your mon anymore, he wants you and your body. Just sayin... Good luck.
Yes, tell him to respect your privacy and YOU. Tell your Mom he makes you feel uncomfortable and why. If she turns a cheek then move out.
Take your power and don't be scared to. If you don't, no one else will.
You know that you can always talk to him yourself. But, if I were you, I'd record the whole thing without him knowing it. If you ever need proof you have it. Legally, not sure if it's in your state, but, you can use it in court as long as you don't leave the room while you're recording. Depending on what he says you could have your Mom listen to it.
Calm down . I don't think he has done anything to you in your sleep . one needs to be knocked out to not feel anything like that . so you are alright . but I would suggest you to talk to your mother about this ( a serious talk) and a family counselor (as an expert) . and . just for the caution, keep your phone close .don't expect drinks from him . and don't be alone with him .
Don't worry. you are alright. he could not do anything to you in your sleep without you , noticing it later.
Yep. He's really ****** up.
talk to some one I am dealing with a similar situation and not only is it wrong its just plain gross !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! TELL SOMEONE your comfortable with
why don't you tell your mother?if your step father did that ,you should be careful ,please protect yourself.