Guy's downgrade to easy girls?
I was talking to this very good looking, popular guy for about a month. He always wanted to hang out with me, and even tried to get me to break up with my boy friend back at home as we are in college... One night he poured his heart out to me as if he wanted to date me, then did a 180 over night and stopped texting me... even when i told him I ended things with my guy back home, he did not seem interested. Finally I got him to talk to me, and pretty much he told me indirectly that he was a player and "wanted to keep his options open" and "met another girl" and that it was up to me where we went from there.
Now, not to be conceded, but I am a good looking girl... and this new girl he is hanging around is god awful. Not to mention, he has hooked up with 5 other girls before me since coming to college... so he probably did the same thing to the other girls as he is to me now.
I just don't understand why one day he was practically in love with me, now he doesn't have the time of day to even say hi when he passes by. Maybe this new girl, despite her looks, is 'easier'? I sure made it clear I was not easy.
Update:so much bad grammar, i am very tired!
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Well, a player is a player.
That being said, from a guy's point of view, many women are simply a lot of work (aka "High maintenance"). Think "Sally" from "When Hairy Met Sally".
And yes, this means that some guys simply give up and go on to girls where there is no risk of their ego being hurt.
I think women ignore the beating a guy's ego takes every time he gets rejected - and so they don't understand why they spend time trying to figure out how to avoid it happening.
I'm not saying that he isn't a cad - but think about it this way: Think of all the guys you (as a good looking woman) have said "No" to. Now, if they kept asking, you'd be pissed off at them, right? So for (most of the) guys out there that you deal with, you WANT them to be able to move on, right?
So he moved on.
Maybe now that doesn't seem great, but it is better that they be able to do that than to be stuck like glue to the wrong lover.
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I could see why he doesn't want you, because of your unnerving outlook on everybody along with him being a "player", tells me your both are different. What is it about people's looks that upset you. when it comes to a handsome man going with a plain, but easier girl that can give him something new other than the same thing he might have saw in all that other girls and you.
Maybe she had something refreshing instead of you.
He was never practically in love with you. hes a player and wants to play you, hence the word player
He is the player, so move on...
Good luck!