Big shyness problem.......?
I have a big shyness problem and after every party I always feel bad for it, I do socialize when others bring me into the conversation, but I feel like I don't contribute much to it and I can't start any conversations, especially with girls. I could have talked to this one girl who I've known for a while, she always says im really nice and always greets me with a tight hug. At this party she was standing right next to me not talking to anyone while I was standing there pretty much not really talking to anyone either and I didn't know what to say. I don't know if it was the alcohol and weed making it harder, but can anyone help me on how to start conversations and how to talk to girls I have interest in.
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You don't need weed or alcohol to be more sociable. You don't need it, period! It will only lead to addiction.
Notice girls that aren't shy, who are outgoing and friendly, then seek them out for friendship and to learn from them. Some of their charm may rub off on you. Notice that they are "easy" to be with. Not complex. They are approachable and welcome others who come anywhere near them. Forget about yourself, get the focus off of yourself and onto others. Try to put others at ease, just to be nice to them. "GIVE" something of yourself to those around you. If you really put your heart in it, some girls will notice and be attracted to you. Eventually, you'll feel comfortable around the ppl. you like.
Well, just saying hi or giving her a compliment is a really easy way to get into a conversation. Also try asking her about school or her job.
smile. I know that sounds stupid, but when a girl see's a guy smiling, it's welcoming and easy to approach you. Also, hug people when you greet them. There's nothing wrong with showing affections.
Good Luck!
i have a shy problem to but when you are interest in someone it is hard to talk to them. what i do to talk to someone im interest in is by asking them how are they doing and whats been up with them and before you know it u and that other person would be talking.
more alcohol helps