i am a complete mess?
i feel like i have a good life but recently it is just horrible and i am depressed i always am in arguements with my parents and with other friends that start to be mean to me first and i just lose my strength to deal with this and i want to cry because i feel like i cant talk to anyone that will understand and i have thought of suicide(but i would never do it i just feel life would be better with out me around) and i am tearing up just writing this please give me advice i appreciate it thanks
Update:i do have hobbied i am in volleyball in my school but i feel like i suck even though i am on the A team
Update 3:sorry i meant hobbies
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yea i completely know how it feels.
i, on and off, have been going through something like this. its crushing, i know, and very upsetting at how people can really misunderstand things about you.
luckily, i dont feel suicidal or anything like that anymore because i have grown lots of value in myself. i have many hobbies, like playing guitar, gymnastics, singing, working out, and a couple other stuff. i have goals that i want to reach in every one of them, and with each time i practice, i get better and better. When people put me down or try thinking less of me, i often think to myself that it is probably because they hardly know me and dont even know my accomplishments.
simply speaking, you need an ego boost. find something that you find interesting and that will make you feel 'important' or, to be exact, more accomplished.
Hello.
I Know You Say Suicide Has Crossed Your Mind But You Would Never Do It. The Fact Its Crossed Your Mind Is Concerning.
I Felt The Same At 13. Right Up Until About 3 And Half Months Ago, Maybe A Bit Longer & I Am Nearly 16.
I Was Treated By A Doctor. I Had Councilling ( May Help :S)
But Mainly Stay Strong Your Only 13. And At This Time Lots Of Changes Are Happening & If The Changes Are Things Like Starting Highskool ( Dunno Where Your From) & Going Thru Puberty. You Feel Like Your Loosing Control. But You Can Get A Handle On This.
If Your Afraid && Really Down Which You Sound Like You Are www.kidshelp.com.au Go There Or Call 1800 55 1800
I've Called Them Once. The Lady I Spoke To Was Really Good.
They Are The Most Useful.
Good Luck , Take Care & Stay Strong .
Emi - you are only 13, do you honestly think you have done all the living you were put on this earth to live - leave the suicide thing alone and you don't need the pity party either. You are 13, at 13, 14, 15, 16 and maybe way into your 20s, (s)ugar, (h)oney, (i)ce, (t)ea will happen, get over it. There is always tomorrow and as long as you wake up you have the chance to change things for the better. You are not a complete mess, it is just hormonal changes that affect the brain of teenagers, don't let it get the best of you, tomorrow is a different and better day, watch and you know what, you will have many more tomorrows. God Bless.
Spend some time soul searching! look inside your heart and find out why you are depressed. Then adress the issue. You will have many times where you feel this way in your life its called trials and tribulations. Just little test for us to endure and move on. Sometimes you may be depressed and not even understand why. If you give in to this thought of suicide then you were never meant to pass these test that life has for us. I used to spend alot of time putting on sad songs just to cry. Believe me ity helped release alot of unwarrented pain in my heart. Suicide is not the answer. Its a weakness and believe me you are stronger than you think.
At your age (the same as my youngest daughter btw) you will feel unsettled. Puberty turns your hormones into a big mess and you will cry or lose your temper for no reason. Sleep patterns get screwed up too.
It is hard for you to walk between childhood and adulthood, one minute you want to be treated as grown up the next you want to be a kid again. It is tough for parents too..their baby is growing up and they have to learn to let go.
If you are having problems with bullying or schoolwork then you need to get help before things get worse.
Suicide is never a way out and even a half hearted attempt can suceed and leave a lot of devastated friends and family behind.
Think Positive dear. You need some meditation and Yoga and also can take an opinion from a psychiatrist. I think you have many thing to say. May be some one has broken your heart so rudely. Don't try the suicide. It will neither help you or your parent. Try to make yourself more and more busy. So that no negative feelings can try to rule upon you. Best of luck.
Your young. this stage will pass by. i went through it and i know exactly how you feel. just keep positive about things. talk to a friend or someone about your feelings. it will definitly help you. i did and it help me through a lot. take time and listen to your favorite music write your feelings down. and just relax. think about your future and what you want to do in life. find a hobby. just some ideas. good luck. you'll be 26 b4 you know it so enjoy being young.
I am exactly the same!
im 11 though
Simple! you just have way too much time in your hand! If you are struggling for next meal, you have no time to think why this why that!