Huge girl problem...? (from a guy)?
This girl and I have had a "thing" for the last 3 months. We both have told eachother that we like eachother. One big problem is, is that she has a sexual past with one of my friends. They had sex more than once. I found this out after I liked her for a while... my friend told me. (We are all 15 yrs old). I continued to like her and she knew that I knew, and she always tells me how big of a mistake it is, and I feel bad for her...She tells me that she likes me & then tells other people that she doesn't. Even though everyone knows she does. Everyone knows that we have a thing too... people are always asking if we're dating yet, and I tell them no because she doesn't wanna date yet... 2 nights ago, one of my friends, who is a year older than me, she told me that she saw her flirting with her ex boyfriend at the basketball game. I talked to her...through instant messaging... about it and she told me that her friend texted her ex boyfriend (not the one she had sex with, but her latest ex) to come over by them. and she said to me "yeah, i dont know why she did that, she knows how i feel about him"..and i asked her "how exactly she felt about him?" and she told me how she still likes him & never got over him. I was unbelievebly pissed. I said "so what the hell have I been wasting my life on if you like him still?" and she said "i never said i liked him...you wanted the truth!" Which made no sense. She told me she liked me still though and that she's liked me ever since they broke up. I told her that we were done, with whatever we had because of how many times she's hurt me without knwoing it... I told her that we would talk about this the next morning at school. I was talking to her friends and they told me how she says she doesnt like me. I was super pissed then, and she tried coming up to talk to me, and I ignored her and walked away. I tried going up to her later to talk to her, and she started crying, which actually made me cry, because i cant stand to see a girl cry, and then she walked away, and refused to talk to me. All of my friends, every single one of them, hve told me to give up on her and that I can do better..but im stuck on her..I dont know what to do....help!!?? 
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You shouldn't have gotten mad at her. It would have been okay if she actually entered into a relationship with you then said she liked someone else. I believe you said she wasn't ready to date and perhaps that was the reason why. You can't expect her to do everything on your time. She might like you and she doesn't want to let you go but it sounds like she's dealing with some other stuff right now too. You're kind of being selfish there. I also understand the idea of her leading you on, but again you really can't get mad unless she's actually in a relationship with you and doing you bad, until then, while you're single, everything is fair game.
She could also quite possibly just be playing with your head, and in that case you really should move on because you're young and that kind of drama just really isn't worth it at that age.
TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH SHE SOUNDS LIKE A PLAYER BUT A 2 FACED ONE SO DONTT GET ALL EMOTIONAL JUST GET THE HELL OVER HER AND WHEN YO GUYS CAN TRY TO BE FRIENDS OH AND I HOPE HER HOOKERNESS WONT RUB OFF ONTO YOU BECAUSE YOU SEEM NICE AND BY THE WAY TO GET OVER HER HAND HER A DAMN CD WITH THE SONG WHAT THE HELL ON IT BY AVRIL LAVIGN. AND IF SHE TRIES TO CREEP BACK INTO YOUR LIFE I ADVISE YOU TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE AND SHOW HER THAT YOUR NOT A PLAYER LIKE HER. SHE NEEDS A DAMN LIFE!!!
You are acting like you are together and im sorry to say, but it sounds like she doesnt like you..
girls tend to flirt and keep some guys around just for fun without ever intending to date..its life.
sorry.