Sex.sex.sex. r u seriouss?
Ok me and my boyfriend have sex but its always hard and rough and soo filthy dirty and crazy sex,, I mean its great but we never have cute sex. I really wanna have cute nice slow sex but I don't know how to tell him, he's really sweet but when he comes to sex he treats me like a dead opossum that can't feel how hard he's doing me.. lol.. how do I tell him without embarrassing him n making it awkward?
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my oh my. When it comes to sex, you have to tell him straight up about what you want too. It probably will embarrass him but he will probably say "why haven't you told me this?" see what I mean. The reason why he keeps doing what he does is because he is assuming you like it since you haven't said anything to him. You have to be honest and compromise on things that will make the both of you happy during sex. If you want him to do this and that to you while having sex..then ask him to do it for example."babe I like it when you do this..or can we try this?"..if he declines then don't do the things he ask you to do either just to make it fair...if he says yes then there you go..have fun
Honestly there's no way to say it without it being a tiny bit uncomfortable. Being a guy and hearing when my gf wants something different when we have sex is something that always is a little uncomfortable but if he's a nice guy he'll hear what you say and it might be awkward at first, but honestly just telling him is going to do it. He sounds like he respects you and wants you to be happy, so honestly just tell him and explain it, because being rough comes really easy to us.
Well as sex is your call you are the one who calls the shots not him.
Um.. if you can let him put his penis inside your body, why cant you speak to the guy?
send him a link to this question & he'll get it right!