Serious neighbor problems?
My husband, me, and our eleven year old daughter Mackenzie and eight year old son Jason live in a pretty bad neighborhood. But the neighbors are worse.
Let's call the mother S, and the father D, and the daughter B. B comes over all the time, in a nightgown and nothing else. My daughter always watches and plays with her, making sure that she doesn't get hurt or run over and makes sure that she gets dressed with shoes on. The parents do drugs, we know this for a fact. S came over today and told me, personally, that D came and broke into someone's house and stole drugs, and that she wanted to go to rehab to get off the drugs.
Anyway, here's is when the problem started. B came over with my daughter while I was cleaning. B kept throwing all of the dog toys making the dog make a mess, and I told Mackenzie to take her home, which she did. A few minutes later, S came over and said D told her I cussed out their child, which is a complete lie. I would never, and have absolutely no reason to, cuss out a two year old child. So they are already lying.
The worst thing happened today. After telling them to keep to themselves, S came over and said while D was bathing B, and said B said "My friend's touched my privates." For one, what two year old child that can barely speak in sentences say that, and for two, B always says "My privates hurt." And when that happens, my daughter takes her over to her paraents.
Anyways, when S was telling me this, she called my daughter a pedophile and said that my daughter molested her child. I was outraged. My daughter hates pedophiles more than anything, and is more like a babysitter, and I know for a fact she would never do that, and S threatened to call the cops for my daughter touching her daughter.
While my daughter is cryign after being calle a pedophile, we called our landlord. He said he'll do something. But what shoiuld we do? They called our daughter a pedophile, talk **** behind our backs, say I cuss out little children, won't even tell it to our faces. What should we do? I will not stand for it, but don't know what to do.
Please help, and get justice for my family, especially my alledged "pedophile" of a daughter. Please, my husband is about to go and kill them! We tried to be civil, but I am scared to leave the house, as D is always admiring our television and computers. Now we have to actually do something.
Update:I use letters to represent their names, because I feel that they should have their names on the Internet. Oh, and we have a duplex (one house cut in two) and they are our neighbors in the same house. Can't use tresspass.
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Sorry but restraining order is the only way, and even then that probably won't work. You do need to contact the police though and let them know what the neighbors are saying so it won't be a suprise to them when the neighbors tell them.
you have tried to be diplomatic and unfortunately taking the high road is not working. I might file a report with the police just in case your house does get robber or they try to pin Makenzie with some type of abuse allegation. It sounds like they are at the point where they think they can talk to you however they want. I would not conversate with them, the kids will not play, and if you must talk I would have your husband be the voice for your family. People are a little more reserved on getting moutghy with a man about his child. Personally no one is going to call my kid any name or accuse my kid of anything. I would be all over them like flies on ****. As a dad I would let them know who runs the show on the block and that you are not scared to to stand up for your family and or get the cops involved if anything more is said about your kids or if anything happened to your house. You can always call the cops and tell them that you think drugs are being run out of the house and that the child is complaining that their privates hurt. Maybe the parents are the molesters. The would get CPS out there quick for an investigation. Also, if this is a rent house, move. There are too many rent houses out there to have to stay and put up with that. Now the landlord may not give you your deposit back but he is aware of the situation and maybe he would be understanding. If not, cut your losses. If its an apartment, request a transfer to another apartment or another complex if available. Thats better than having your kid brought up on molestation charges or the contents of your house robbed. I would also see if neighbors will keep an eye out when you are not home.
Let's be clear: This is not where the problem started, this is where it spilled over to you.
Your daughter is in a precarious position, and I agree with the person that told you to move. However, it is not that easy, is it?
I would advise you to contact the police and and file a report about 1) the drug use next door, 2) the B's complaint about sore genitals, and D and S's accusations. Make sure you document all of the details.
You must not let B into the house any longer, because her presence is a threat to your daughter (and by implication and progression, to you, your son, and your husband! The law does not take kindly to sex offenders, and your family is in the process of being so labeled.). If you cannot turn B away, call the police and have her removed. You must remain firm and diligent.
Go immediately to child protective services! Someone else may be the pedophile and this little girl is confused and trying to get her point across. Someone needs to report the drugs and bad behavior and you need to move to a better, safer place. Bad neighbors can make life hell for you and your family...I know it's expensive to move but you must consider it a priority for safety sake. Even a tiny place in a better neighborhood is better then a palace in the "hood"
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My father is a cop so i constantly hear of things like this. I am not sure what it is but its possible to get a restraint on S,D,& B so that they are not allowed on your property. and if they continue you could if in dire measures call the police and tell them about the drugs. It would also be an anonomous call and if they tried to confront you about it you could remind them about the civil restraint.
What is with all of these questions using neighbors as letters?
Ignore them and if they come over again call the police. Get a non-tresspass warrant put on them.
Move! This sort of thing only gets worse. They may commit a crime against you like steal your things, say you or your husband molested their kid to get you arrested,or kill your husband/have him put in jail after a fight they provoke. Just get out;it's the best for all in your family.
Go to the police station and file a report on them for the drugs let them know whats up. get a restraining order on them so they wont come back and if you arent carefull they may steal your goods.
Talk with your police or attorney.