How do you reconcile your weirdo family with a serious g/f?
From time to time this has come up for me, my girlfriend asks to see my family, I tell her no as they behave reprehensibly (and sure as anything the g/f's negative observations of my family will be used against me) and they take this as some kind of snub even after I tell them I am saving them from oceans of grief and aggravation by not letting her meet them nor them meet her. Do most girlfriends insist on seeing your family at some point? I swear to God I am almost wanting to tell my next g/f that I am an orphan....
How come some ladies can't understand that not everyone's family is sweet, loving and wonderful?
Update:If I ever get married my family will be the last to know.
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Explain how your family acts, and tell her that if she wants to meet them, she needs to understand that you do not agree with the way they act. Any girl that gets serious with you will want to at least meet your family once.
well my bf was scared to bring me around his family simply because they werent normal and he kinda childish in ways. however he warned me that his mom has grabbed his exs boobs and stuff like that, if u plan to be serious with this girl she will need to meet them eventually and i promise if shes right she wont judge u for the way they act, although my bf dont see his family much i wouldnt mind spending more time with them although they are "different" i enjoy them and i would never let the way they act effect ne thing with him