Am I just paranoid ?
so me & my bf have been together for a while now & he texted me Friday asking to hang out cause he had the house to himself for the weekend & obviously it would have ended up in sex, which would have been our first time being together. He's not a virgin but I am & I wanted it, but he never pulled through with the plans & I didn't hear from him in a week. it makes me nervous because I feel like he brought other girls instead, cause he liked this girl's pic on fb that she posted like a week ago. & it's the same girl he spammed with likes before & a month ago some girl told him that she missed him and he said it back and she told him to text her idk. he texted me 2 days ago saying he was going to work and just wanted to say that he loves me but I was still sort of mad so all I said was love you. he texted later that night but I was already sleeping so I texted him the day after saying I was sleeping and that I just got his text, but he never replied at all & I haven't heard from him in a day so far.
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I think saying "obviously it would have ended up in sex" is weird. Are you saying you don't have control over yourself? No wonder you're paranoid - people who feel like they can't control themselves tend to feel like other people can't control themselves either. Believe me, ending up having sex just because you're visiting someone in their house is NOT obvious to most people!